Where to find girls if you live in nowheresville?

[middleofnowhere]

I'm an above average looking guy that dresses better than most guys. (I don't have a "casual" shirt in my collection...everything is button up and top of the line jeans or dress pants and coats.)

As of late, I've also become very outgoing. I've went on a few internet coffee dates with 6-7s just as practice and been able to hold a conversation and actively listen for up to 2 hours. (They never went anywhere further because the women were looking for marriage/kids in the near future and I wasn't interested enough anyway.)

So I have some looks and decent game. I also dated an HB8 last year. What happened was, when we split up, as badly as I wanted to move on, there was no one to move on to. While I liked her, I didn't love her or have a huge crush on her...but when you're surrounded by UG0-4s everywhere you go, it makes the girl look like a 10.

Anyway, so I've decided that I have to take matters into my hands and find alternative spots to meet attractive women (by attractive I mean HB8-10.) Look up Divini Rae or Midwest Mandy Alyssa Jones. Those are the kind I like. Occasionally I like Jane Leeves, plain/hot type women, but even those aren't around in my area.

So I'm wondering where to go. These are current plans I have:

1.)There's an outdoor shopping mall 30 minutes south, and for the most part, the bitter cold winter weather is over. Sometimes there are several HB8-10s there shopping alone or in groups. While it's not the best place to approach, I have no outcome dependence or fear of rejection.

2.)I live maybe an hour from the big city. So I figure I'd hit up the higher-class bars, the kind a guy with a shirt and tie would be welcome and there'd be a higher class of women, and maybe just try to get some numbers or invited back to their place.

3.)My brother is in the same position, except he's really good looking...looks like Matthew McCoughnaey. We both have a couple weeks off of vacation in the spring, and plan to go to a party area. The problem is that it doesn't solve anything long-term on how to meet women and this also won't be for a couple of months.

I'm wondering how other guys deal or have dealt with living in a target-poor area.

 

[Slickster]

I've been in those places before and man it's bleak sometimes. As you say the 5's and 6's start looking like 8's and 9's. If you do find one the competition can be rough.

I've found that dressing up in Hicksville usually is a negative. Dressing down a little works better as long as you spice it up just a little more than the average dudes.

Since there isn't much nightlife or cool hangouts you really have to venture out during the day. There are cute girls everywhere sometimes you just have to look harder. Head out shopping or go to businesses you've never been before. Just last week I discovered a super hottie working at the local fish monger. I asked her if she was new in town and she says she's been there for quite a while. I'm hooked up so passed the tip onto some single buddies, but it just goes to show you that the cute ones pop up on you sometimes.

Trips to the city will do you a world of good.

 

[middleofnowhere]

I've decided that drastic times call for drastic measures (I'm changing the cliche from desperate to drastic because I'm not desperate, but I am eager.)

I'm willing to take any advice on where to go to meet HB8-10s. I'm willing to do what I've never been willing to do before, other than pay for sex.

 

[kody_starr]

Where are you located.

 

[middleofnowhere]

About an hour from Boston. I live in a part of Mass primarily filled with foreigners and white trash.

 

[kody_starr]

Do you have a car?

 

[middleofnowhere]

Yes I do.

 

[kody_starr]

Drive to beantown and make a weekend of it! Woohoo! :woo:

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

It's certainly a challenge to maintain an abundance mindset out here in the corn. You city boys have no idea.

For me it's all about making as much $ as I can and buying a farm closer to a big city. Women are on the back burner until I make some things happen.

 

[middleofnowhere]

There aren't even women to get one-it-is over. I can't remember the last time I even saw an HB8.

Like a poster referred to, there is Boston, and I'm tempted to go there just to try my luck, but it won't help long term. My goal is to either get a really good looking girlfriend that I'm crazy about or a HB f*** buddy or rotation of HB f*** buddies.

But I am willing to go into Boston as a last resort and just have a fun weekend and worry about the future later. I drink but I don't get drunk, and would prefer the woman to be sober and just a cool chick that wants to fornicate.

 

[Evil_Muska]

I drink but I don't get drunk, and would prefer the woman to be sober and just a cool chick that wants to fornicate.

Yeah... looks to me like you might need to work on how you talk a little also.
Seriously?.... fornicate?:crackup:... the last person I heard say that was a preacher.

Even my MOM doesn't use that word.

So yeah do yourself a favor and lose that from your vocabulary... quick.

 

[middleofnowhere]

I don't walk around saying the word "fornicate" especially to women. You signed up just to make that comment?

My situation presents an interesting problem in general though. How do you maintain an abundance mentality when there isn't an abundance? The women I see would be 0-6s to most men, regardless of individual taste.

Yes, btw, I plan on moving in the near future, but for personal reasons, it isn't feasible right now. So I just have to make the best with what I have.

Boston, like I said, could provide some interesting one night stands, but I'm more looking for a f*** buddy or girlfriend to have sex with all of the time.

 

[synergy1]

About an hour from Boston. I live in a part of Mass primarily filled with foreigners and white trash.

I am pretty familiar with MA. what town are you in?

MA is pretty much the sticks outside of the city. That said, you don't necessarily need to hit up downtown to find single women there...a lot will move slightly further from the city once they graduate to avoid the high cost of living. Places like Watertown, and even Waltham ( although that is expensive) probably have the same scene as downtown, and might be closer to you.

As for getting into the city, I think the best places to go were boylston near their central park. Slightly higher class, and certainly hotter types of women there than in other places like fenway, or even faniul area. Boston is essentially one huge college, so its nice to know where to go to avoid the regular boring 'frat' bars.