"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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where to find decent girls-those that don't sleep around and one ningters

joe45

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any of you guys ever met any girls off the net. wow so far i met like 5 but not all at once. last 2 where just complete wackos. my question is this:where do u these days find a decent , non whorish, non-slept with like 20 guys, had not had one nighters and had not had a lot of guys who were just one nighters. so far girls off the net have been like this, not sure to belive what they say or not-but hey its possible right. funny thing was these girl were dressed normallly -hoody, jeans-nothing u think in ur mind they'll be whorish,but for some reason when we decided to go out-coffee and walk around the malls they tell me this somewere in the converation.

also how can u tell from a decent good giurl from a girl that been around the block with 20 or more guys. dress wise you can't-last 2 girl dressed like preppys and so non whorish. till you chat and talk with em you'll never now and what if they never tell ya. later on she becomes ur gf and she tells u this -ahhh sick. i think it sick and gross that any girl or worse if she becomes my gf who has been with so many men.

is this normal or have i been enslaved into sheltered family life which i have been. yea these girl were asian(one chinese cbc, other japanese) too -you think with the strict upbringing of asian parents that the girl be more consverative,but ah no.

oh ya get this age wise-one was only 19 and the other turning 21 -yea you think they'll be more innocent since they're so young right-ah think not. crazy stuff man

i'm in my mid 20's inexp with girls and dating.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're thinking too much. Read the DJBible. There are no decent girls...work on yourself, then you'll get your pick from the finest of the undecent.
 

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hey man, the reason why you cant find those types of girs is because you are not looking in the right spot.
you have to know which type of girs you want and then decide where are the best places to find them.
I know about a place that for sure youll find the type of girls that dont sleep around and dont do the one nighter stuff.

go to a cementery.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joe45 said:
i'm in my mid 20's inexp with girls and dating.
Let me ask you a question. Do you masturbate? Are you a virgin? How much sexual experience do you have? Would you like to have more sexual experience? So, if you can, why can't they?

Btw, why do you think they look ''normal''? Because, they are normal. It isn't wrong. Think about it.
 

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SamePendo said:
Let me ask you a question. Do you masturbate? Are you a virgin? How much sexual experience do you have? Would you like to have more sexual experience? So, if you can, why can't they?

Btw, why do you think they look ''normal''? Because, they are normal. It isn't wrong. Think about it.

yea i mastuabthe and no not a vigin lost it to a escort girl working at a massage p , thats all my sexual exp. never had gf or anyting yea . at 24 i did it should have been earlier 18 i wished
 
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Haha, so you can't find a woman that had less than 20 penises in them - you must live in America!!!

A hor is a woman that is sexing dudes -- period!!!! If she is sexing a dude who is not her husband then she is a hor - it matters not the number!!!

Court a Muslim, if you want a "decent" (virgin) woman!!!
 

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Actually I'm from a muslim family and umm you have the wrong perception, yea there are the few priests daughters that are virgins till they marry and a few others but they are ug-fu(ken-ly. But the vast majority of them are just like the rest of them, except that mummy and daddy dont ever find out ( a little inside info for you ).

Just get out there and meet girls simple as that if you lucky you bump into a decent chick who hasnt had any di(k yet, till then go hard on anything that makes you say "I'd hit that sideways, while upside down" :)
 

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Well you can start going for those younger girls that haven't lost it yet! but you better get your money's worth to make it worth the jail time :crackup:

But I agree with ralston, there really are no decent girls when you get right down to it.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude, is sounds like your caught in that fantasy of finding a "nice" girl.

There is no such thing as a "nice" girl, just girls.

Granted, some have been around the block more than others and some are better than others but a woman is a woman.

Even the most seemingly sweet and wholesome girl that you would think doesn't do anything whorish will fool the sh*t out of you.

Just like men, any woman is capable of anything.

Also, it doesn't matter if a chick has f*cked 20 guys. Nowadays, that's probably closer to the average.

You never really know what a chick has done and how many d*cks she's had so don't worry about it.

I like girls with some experience because they've learned how to please a man and they know what they like sexually.

So forget about the other dudes she's been with, just be happy your f*cking her now.

Also, a decent woman is any woman that treats you with respect and looks to satisfy you in and out of bed.
 
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