Just wondering, where would I approach women when schools out? I know the mall is one place, but I don't have a car and the nearest mall would take around an hour to get to walking. Also isn't it loitering if you just walk around the mall and don't buy anything? Yeah, wouldn't want to get arrested. But yeah, what other places are there to approach girls? Should I just walk around the suburb and see what I find? Would taking the hour walk to the mall be worth it? I just don't want to use "It's the weekend" and "I don't have a car" as excuses for not approaching over the weekend.
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Where to approach girls when schools out?
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I dont know where you, live, just think about it man where do the hot girls in your town go?
WesCottII
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First off, it should be motivation to GET A CAR. Second, loitering? No, thats dumb to suggest.
Walk the hour, you've got nothing better to do. Public transport?
Walk the hour, you've got nothing better to do. Public transport?
shydude
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Everyone asks this question at first! were to meet women..
Answer is everywhere!
people are everywhere, yes right? Chicks your age are people, and can be everywhere! But ofcourse, you wont stand in the corner for hours and hoping sexy chick will pass by! No, what you do is explore new places, such as, after school activities, going with friends to the beach, pool, pingpong, clubs, museums, movie theaters. Chill with your friends at the same time, while meeting new people. Keep expanding your social life, every friend has another friend and most of them might have new chicks you might be interested in..
Answer is everywhere!
people are everywhere, yes right? Chicks your age are people, and can be everywhere! But ofcourse, you wont stand in the corner for hours and hoping sexy chick will pass by! No, what you do is explore new places, such as, after school activities, going with friends to the beach, pool, pingpong, clubs, museums, movie theaters. Chill with your friends at the same time, while meeting new people. Keep expanding your social life, every friend has another friend and most of them might have new chicks you might be interested in..
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One word, beach. At the very least the women their are already half-naked 
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I don't have bus money and I have no idea where the nearest bus stop would be.
For after school activities I already do sports and track is over. There's no beach near here. I already chill with my friends, we're going to Geauga Lake this summer, but how will I approach girls inbetween then? I wonder. And you say everywhere, yet this is not always true. I could walk outside walk around the whole neighborhood and not see one decent girl, I would mostly just see kids and adults. Likewise, I could just walk on the streets and I would not see any attractive women.
But you see, I don't live in an area near a beach, nearest beach is an hour or so from here by car.
Yeah. Well today I went up to that mall and hell no, I cannot walk there again. It took me about an hour and 30 minutes walking to get up there and... that's just not worth it just to approach women. There are a few stores around here though, but I think that's it.
But at this moment I don't know where any buses are. Alright well school got out early today and I need somewhere to go instead staying in this house all day man. Wish I had a car, but that's not the case here. Might just go exploring the city. Or do you guys think chicks would hang out in the movie theater? If my friend is busy, I might just go see Pirates of the Carribean myself. Seriously though man, I just got to find a club or something around town that I can go to, that girls go to since there are really no good places to approach girls around here. The mall and band camp can't be the only two places to approach girls this summer.
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Wow, graduations are over, ton of girls there but I didn't approach them because most of them were with family. Schools year pretty much over, hopefully I'll get an oppurtunity to approach during these last 3 finals days. Seriously though dude, I need a place to approach women during summer. I might even take superchill's advice and find a bus that can take me to that particular suburb where the mall is. But if that doesn't work out, my only other choice is joining a club or program that women would do.
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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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you've graduated high school but you can't drive?
you kidding me?
don't any of your friends drive? ask them to drive you around, just go hang out,
have a bbq at the park and invite everyone and tell the people you invite to invite whoever they want (great way to meet new people)
you kidding me?
don't any of your friends drive? ask them to drive you around, just go hang out,
have a bbq at the park and invite everyone and tell the people you invite to invite whoever they want (great way to meet new people)
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oops double post
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from the few posts of yours that ive read, i see that you post and then argue with everyone that tries to give you help... also, bing in track, why not jog/run to the mall? that ought to cut the time in half at least! and guess what else, it gets you in shape.
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Man, you'll never get anywhere if you have those kind of excuses. Family is not stopping you from being social. Go and meet some friends/girls. Become best friends with the dad of your targetElStud said:
Also, I'm kind of in the same position with no car. I got around that by planning **** with my parents and _making friends_ who can drive. I'm usually out a lot now. Getting a job would also be a great idea (just got one at a restaurant!), you can always carpool with people you meet. Hitch-hiking is also a great idea, but you need the balls to be assertive when you're stopping cars. I usually only do this if it's a girl driver (mostly because I don't want to end up hitching with some psycho killer). Honestly, the chances are out there, but you're putting needless boundaries between you and strangers. Just walk up to somebody and chat ‘em up, even if it's a guy you might find a job, ride, wingman, or just improve your social skill.
Take it easy,
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