"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where she's at

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I'm finally going to ask how to approach this situation as a search and the bible did not answer anything pertaining to this.

A girl cheated on her bf with me, and we've actually hung out and such after it happened. With no sex though after the first time. It's clear that I'm into her and she's into me, but she's in a 2+ year relationship with a trusting guy.

While I have gone out with other girls since, I want this to be my main target.

How would y'all go about asking her what she's doing, where she's at with everything?

(please save your "if she'll cheat on him she'll cheat on you" post. I dont really care to hear it right now)

Thanks

*edit: The question was kinda broad. I think to clarify I mean to ask her "Why is she doing this? Does she have enough interest to leave her bf? ". I dont want to go through this whole ordeal if she just wants attention.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks.

I cant say that she is "SO special" just yet. But I'm trying to figure that out. It's not so much my problem as it is hers, and I totally understand that.


I was under the impression though that telling her how you feel is AFC though. I mean, I am a AFC that got lucky with this (there was a good deal of gaming though, but still got lucky). I will tell her what I want, that was one of my intentions.

Anyways, thank you for your post. Probably the only response I"ll need :p
 
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Sounds good, I'll give it a shot. A lot of the stuff I've done has been unorthodox and damn if it hasnt worked out nicely so far. I think when you read more than you act it ruins the whole mindset. You have to get experience and know what applies to each situation based on what you can tell of the situation.

Thanks again TS, I'll try to post a update to this topic.

Worst comes to worse it's a good learning experience ;P
 
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