"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm finally going to ask how to approach this situation as a search and the bible did not answer anything pertaining to this.

A girl cheated on her bf with me, and we've actually hung out and such after it happened. With no sex though after the first time. It's clear that I'm into her and she's into me, but she's in a 2+ year relationship with a trusting guy.

While I have gone out with other girls since, I want this to be my main target.

How would y'all go about asking her what she's doing, where she's at with everything?

(please save your "if she'll cheat on him she'll cheat on you" post. I dont really care to hear it right now)

Thanks

*edit: The question was kinda broad. I think to clarify I mean to ask her "Why is she doing this? Does she have enough interest to leave her bf? ". I dont want to go through this whole ordeal if she just wants attention.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks.

I cant say that she is "SO special" just yet. But I'm trying to figure that out. It's not so much my problem as it is hers, and I totally understand that.


I was under the impression though that telling her how you feel is AFC though. I mean, I am a AFC that got lucky with this (there was a good deal of gaming though, but still got lucky). I will tell her what I want, that was one of my intentions.

Anyways, thank you for your post. Probably the only response I"ll need :p
 

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Sounds good, I'll give it a shot. A lot of the stuff I've done has been unorthodox and damn if it hasnt worked out nicely so far. I think when you read more than you act it ruins the whole mindset. You have to get experience and know what applies to each situation based on what you can tell of the situation.

Thanks again TS, I'll try to post a update to this topic.

Worst comes to worse it's a good learning experience ;P
 
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