"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Where is your Stumbling Block with Women?

What is your Stumbling Block with Women?

  • Finding Women to Meet

    Votes: 9 23.1%
  • Talking to Women in Person

    Votes: 7 17.9%
  • Getting Phone Numbers

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • Getting a Kiss

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • Having Sex

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • Having a Relationship (> 3 months)

    Votes: 5 12.8%
  • Having a Long Term Relationship (> 6 months)

    Votes: 8 20.5%
  • Getting Married

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Staying Married

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    39

Kidquick

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The biggest challenge for me seems to be meeting single girls that aren't overweight. Apparently it's just too much to ask.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bigneil

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Interesting to see the numbers unfolding. Nobody has any trouble getting married.
 

SeymourCake

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I can get their numbers easily, but I don't have my stuff together to possess any value for them to kiss and/or have sex with me.
 

Ihateinitiatingalot7

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talking to them in person, i tend to run out of things to talk about, too many pauses, awkward silences, and how do you be pro-active in the search for a girlfriend and at the same time not be desperate? how do you stop being desperate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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