I've been lurking this site for a while now and I've finally decided to post. Now lets see what my DJ skills have taught me. I recently moved to a new city and a friend of mine hooked me up with the digits of a girl who resides here. She suggested I call her up and ask her if she wanted to hang out. So I did.
I called her on tues. and introduced myself and asked her some questions. I found out she is also new to the city and moved here to start a job as a school teacher. I B'S'd with her for a little while and asked her if she wanted to get together friday night and hang out. She agreed.
I called her on friday, told her I was on my way, and went to her place to pick her up. All done up and looking good, she let me in for a minute, then gathered her things. I opened the car door for her and off we went. I think it went OK - There was good eye contact and good conversation with humor during the time we spent. There was a little touching as I rested my arm next to hers as I leaned over to talk in her ear since the band was playing pretty loud. After a few hours I took her home and walked her to her door. I told her I had a nice time and we should get together again sometime. She said sure. I gave her a hug and left. If I could do it over I think I would've kissed her.
Wondering if she had someone to spend Thanksgiving with, I called her after I left her place. I asked her if she had plans for the holiday, and if not she was welcome to come with me to my family's house. She said she wasn't sure, and if her other plans didn't work out, she would come. She called me about 3 days later and said that she would be having dinner with her friend. But, however I was welcome to stop by her place later on in the evening since it is relatively close to my family's residence. I told her I would call her.
I called her on thanksgiving evening and told her I was leaving my folk's house. Then I asked her if it was OK if I stop by to see her. She said "Sure, if u want to. My friend's here and we're just watching movies". She didn't sound too cheerful but I said I'd stop by and I did. At her place she introduced me to her friend. They're movie was pretty much done so her friend didn't hang around long and left. Before she left her friend said to me "Don't keep her up too late. She's not feeling too good". I said "Ummm... OK". and yes this girl said she had gotten a cold. We BS'd for a little after her friend left. I could tell she wasn't feeling too cheerful, so I gave her a hug and left a short time later. She said she had some free time on the weekend though. I asked her if she'd like to come along with me, my sister and my sis's boyfriend since we had plans already, and she agreed.
Along with the other two, I picked her up the next day and we hung out for a few hours. She seemed a little quiet and shy, maybe a little cold. I figured maybe she was still a little sick with the cold and maybe sort of shy since she didn't know my sis and her BF. Afterwards I dropped her off back home and told her that we would all be going out that night and she was welcome to come along. She said maybe, I said OK then call me later if u want to get together tonight.
That night sis, BF and I went out and just before then I called this girl to try and persuade her to come along.... She said "No, I'm just going to hang around my place. I don't feel like going out". I told her I would like her company, but she said no and stayed home.
Days passed before I called her again, six to be exact. I was taking advice from my sister not to call this girl again until she calls me first. Well I wasn't sure about sis's advice and thought I ought to ask this girl out again and see what happens. I called last fri and got an answering machine.... I left a message and asked her if she'd like to maybe get together this coming weekend. She called me back 3 days later. We BS'd on the phone for an hour, and was the most we had ever talked, since I kept the previous conversations on the phone rather short. This last conversation I was asking her a lot of questions about her job, friends and stuff and she didn't seem shy at all, and was pretty talkative. She did most of the talking. Towards the end I asked her if she wanted to get together this weekend. She said she was busy - she had plans with her friend one night and a work party on the next night. However, she said that she has free time on the days in the weekend. So I said OK well lets keep in touch and I'll talk to u later.
No I do not have a case of oneitis and I haven't called this girl a whole lot. I suppose I'd like to go out with her again, she is a smart girl and is pretty cool it seems. I'm thinking and hoping I'm not looking desperate in her eyes. So, what the hell? Should I next her? She said she couldn't go out next weekend. But she said she had some free time during the days on the weekend, which leaves me wondering if she's interested. I haven't the slightest clue what her interest level might be..... maybe I'm stupid. I thought maybe I'll invite her to go ice skating in the daytime this weekend, at which time I thought I might get a little more touchy feely and show her that I'm interested. What do ya'll think or what would u do if you were me? Sorry if this is too long..... and feel free to flame, I don't give a fvck.
I called her on tues. and introduced myself and asked her some questions. I found out she is also new to the city and moved here to start a job as a school teacher. I B'S'd with her for a little while and asked her if she wanted to get together friday night and hang out. She agreed.
I called her on friday, told her I was on my way, and went to her place to pick her up. All done up and looking good, she let me in for a minute, then gathered her things. I opened the car door for her and off we went. I think it went OK - There was good eye contact and good conversation with humor during the time we spent. There was a little touching as I rested my arm next to hers as I leaned over to talk in her ear since the band was playing pretty loud. After a few hours I took her home and walked her to her door. I told her I had a nice time and we should get together again sometime. She said sure. I gave her a hug and left. If I could do it over I think I would've kissed her.
Wondering if she had someone to spend Thanksgiving with, I called her after I left her place. I asked her if she had plans for the holiday, and if not she was welcome to come with me to my family's house. She said she wasn't sure, and if her other plans didn't work out, she would come. She called me about 3 days later and said that she would be having dinner with her friend. But, however I was welcome to stop by her place later on in the evening since it is relatively close to my family's residence. I told her I would call her.
I called her on thanksgiving evening and told her I was leaving my folk's house. Then I asked her if it was OK if I stop by to see her. She said "Sure, if u want to. My friend's here and we're just watching movies". She didn't sound too cheerful but I said I'd stop by and I did. At her place she introduced me to her friend. They're movie was pretty much done so her friend didn't hang around long and left. Before she left her friend said to me "Don't keep her up too late. She's not feeling too good". I said "Ummm... OK". and yes this girl said she had gotten a cold. We BS'd for a little after her friend left. I could tell she wasn't feeling too cheerful, so I gave her a hug and left a short time later. She said she had some free time on the weekend though. I asked her if she'd like to come along with me, my sister and my sis's boyfriend since we had plans already, and she agreed.
Along with the other two, I picked her up the next day and we hung out for a few hours. She seemed a little quiet and shy, maybe a little cold. I figured maybe she was still a little sick with the cold and maybe sort of shy since she didn't know my sis and her BF. Afterwards I dropped her off back home and told her that we would all be going out that night and she was welcome to come along. She said maybe, I said OK then call me later if u want to get together tonight.
That night sis, BF and I went out and just before then I called this girl to try and persuade her to come along.... She said "No, I'm just going to hang around my place. I don't feel like going out". I told her I would like her company, but she said no and stayed home.
Days passed before I called her again, six to be exact. I was taking advice from my sister not to call this girl again until she calls me first. Well I wasn't sure about sis's advice and thought I ought to ask this girl out again and see what happens. I called last fri and got an answering machine.... I left a message and asked her if she'd like to maybe get together this coming weekend. She called me back 3 days later. We BS'd on the phone for an hour, and was the most we had ever talked, since I kept the previous conversations on the phone rather short. This last conversation I was asking her a lot of questions about her job, friends and stuff and she didn't seem shy at all, and was pretty talkative. She did most of the talking. Towards the end I asked her if she wanted to get together this weekend. She said she was busy - she had plans with her friend one night and a work party on the next night. However, she said that she has free time on the days in the weekend. So I said OK well lets keep in touch and I'll talk to u later.
No I do not have a case of oneitis and I haven't called this girl a whole lot. I suppose I'd like to go out with her again, she is a smart girl and is pretty cool it seems. I'm thinking and hoping I'm not looking desperate in her eyes. So, what the hell? Should I next her? She said she couldn't go out next weekend. But she said she had some free time during the days on the weekend, which leaves me wondering if she's interested. I haven't the slightest clue what her interest level might be..... maybe I'm stupid. I thought maybe I'll invite her to go ice skating in the daytime this weekend, at which time I thought I might get a little more touchy feely and show her that I'm interested. What do ya'll think or what would u do if you were me? Sorry if this is too long..... and feel free to flame, I don't give a fvck.
