"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where is the strangest place where you got a date?

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I am curious about this guys. I never seem to get what would be "Cold" dates. Like the gym, Grocery store. Bookstore. ect... All of my dates and relationshps have happened via my work, Friends and relatives and one on the internet. (Boy was she a nut....LOL). I guess I have to say that I have a phobia of going up to a complete stranger and starting a conversation and ending wth asking her out.


Appreciate any good suggestions...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

leeman67

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PS. typeo... NO I DONT DATE RELATIVES....lol. I ment that I have met women that were introduced to me via family members ......LOL
 

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My buddy knew a chick here. Anyways, he got us to add each other, and our first date was meeting up at the store and err...buying food and stuff for a party I was having.

Yes! :woo:
 
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