"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where is the line?

LuckyStrike88

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Women being disrespectful. Last few months I've just been telling them to **** of sorta speak. And when i didn't i regret i didn't.

And when you don't you know what happens. They tend to **** you over. So what's the point?

Maybe just focus on your own life and career and wait for a quality woman?

When they are disrespectful, i don't care how hot they are. I am not going to deal with that ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LuckyStrike88

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Addition:
So I've been single since last Oktober. Mainly because i actually can't stand bad behavior of woman anymore, yeah i am only talking about attractive ones. So i tend to push them away.

I've got this forum to thank for that. I have changed and i thank you all for that, i feel much stronger and have much more self respect than I've ever had. I had more women when i sort of gave in somewhat, but now i just can't.

What basically happened is i had a bad deal with my last ex in Oktober and i decided to find out what caused it and i did with your help.

After that everything changed, i was the one to end it with girls that i was actually really attracted to. But i could not accept their behavior and therefor disregarded them, went NC and whatsoever.

Since then i tend to care less about women and i am more focused on my career and such, feeling like i would only accept a quality woman that is just chill.

Though it is a strange twist to me, from what i have seen it has something to do with "the red pill"? anyone care to enlighten me?
 

miketan70

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This is how you feel now, right? So stay focused on your career and other things which are important to you. Women? There is plenty of time to be with them and to find the right one:). I am also in some weird period. I just want to enjoy life and not have commitment. Until the right moment comes.
 
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