"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where is my life headed?

upcomingDJ

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I am at a hard time in my life right now. So here is the scenario, I need advice:

- The last year I had a girlfriend (who I am not with anymore) that caused problems
- I got into problems like getting into a car accident (cost 4,000 to fix and it's fixed now, we were arguing in the car)
- Almost got arrested for reckless driving (had my lawyer get me out of it)
- I spent almost 3,000 throughout the relationship (I calculated after breakup)
- I recently dropped out of college
- I got my real estate license (now a realtor/loan officer)
- I was trying to pursue my career in real estate & loans to get into investing (however right now the market sucks and not making any money and deals that I couldn't close because of clients with bad credit)
- I have no income the last 3 months
- I have 5,000 in the bank right now (savings)
- I don't know whether to go back to school or get a job and wait till my business gets better, my mom needs my financial help
- My dad and mom are not together and my dad doesn't help around the house or my older brother


I really want to become a millionaire by 23 but right now it is not looking good. I hate school because it doesn't teach to become a business owner or investor. Also, I don't want a job because it takes time out of growing my business and right now business is slow as heck. I am only 18.5 years old and strong ambition to do something. I don't know where I am going at this point. I need advice from older folks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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judging my your actions, you need to go back to school. Preferably a community college. Work on the side. After 2 years in CC you'll have your degree so you can transfer and a pretty good idea of what is and isnt for you. Your probably at that stage in your life where your like "oh i'll come up with a secret to success, and live the rest of my days as a millionaire" Just get back on some common ground towards a common goal and then figure things out.
 
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