"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where is Interceptor?

the_govner

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This guy provided us with a crapload of inspiration during his stint here and I hope he comes back for the newer, younger posters.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This thread isn't a tip and therefore in the wrong sub-forum.

As for the subject of your thread.

According to his profile page, Interceptor hasn't logged on since November.

I am hoping he comes back though I am sure he has his reasons for the absence.
 

the_govner

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Maxtro said:
This thread isn't a tip and therefore in the wrong sub-forum.

As for the subject of your thread.

According to his profile page, Interceptor hasn't logged on since November.

I am hoping he comes back though I am sure he has his reasons for the absence.

Sorry bro, thanks.
 

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Hey guys, thanks for the kind words.
I've been focusing on other areas of my life and there are only so many hours in the day.

I'd like to be a little active here and there when I have the time, so don't count me out yet. I hope to share some of my latest insights soon.

See you soon, and thanks again.


Interceptor
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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