put it like this dude its high school instead of tryin to find a long term relationship try just finding a girl to hang wit and mabey get some from. another thing not sayin you should or w/e but try goin to one party its not gunna kill ya its not gunna get you adictive to anything unless you let it. Partys is yes drinkin all that but its also one of the best social things in high school you become more popular cus your hanging out wit large amount of ppl from school outside of school and your having fun wit them. and one thing ive learnd alot of things you may have heard about girls havin sex may not have been true if a girl has had sex wit 3 guys in highschool that can go from 3 guys to 10 guys alot of time its a bunch of drama bull**** thats why you need to talk to these girls find out who they really are. But if you keep tryin to find this nice girl that doesnt do all this stuff its a waste of time altease if this is your senior year just have fun like a mother ****er