Where have all the nice girls gone

[Don Juan Wannabe]

Listen guys, first I would like to thank all of you. This site really has helped me start getting my **** together. A couple of years ago I was the biggest supplicating loser. I had not life, didn't follow any of my dreams and thought that if only I had a girl, true love...then I would be complete~!

Hah, that was a joke. So anyways I'm more outgoing, dress better, been doing the things I've always wanted to do, gotten bigger at the gym, good sense of humor, kinda a smartass.. ect... Heres the problem though, I think im ready to get back in the ring agian, ready to get into another relationship when it hits me!!!

Finding someone even worth the effort is just a joke. I mean, don't get me wrong im not perfect and im still not the most outgoing guy but it doesn't seem to even matter. Every girl I approach, get to know in class...whatever. All they do is drink, party, and Fuk random guys. I mean im not into that crap at all...never had a cig, drink in my life...and yes while I'm as horney as any other guy, I don't think sex should be given out like candy. I mean at this point I wish it was me, but no! theres not a half way decent girl I've met recently that I could even begin to try to scew up with. That I could be suave around

As a senior im into a alot of advanced classes, couple of colleges...nothing easy. So I try to get some of the more shy girls in class, the ones you thinkin. Shes in an advanced class, kinda quiet, prob a nice girl, kinda overlooked...HELL NO!!! Parties and all that other "fun" crap.

At this point, im not looking for sex, im not looking for a bombshell. All I want is a resonably cute girl, good head on her shoulders, good sense of humor, doesn't drink/smoke, isn't a **** buddy to half the football team!!! A mean just a honest to god decent girl!!!

WHERE HAVE ALL THE NICE GIRLS GONE?! I mean is that what you guys like, party all the time. Call me conservative when it comes to this crap but I have NO desire to do that ****.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Look, youre living in a reality where you believe theres a "pure" and innocent girl out there...guess what? Theres not! You would bang girls left and right given the chance. You may be a good guy but youre not innocent either. Girls are slvts, all of them. If youre so conservative then you should go to church. Or you should fvckin relax and stop trying to find a girl to marry. Youre 17, 18 at most bro, you need to learn how to have fun. Youre exaggerating and you know it...jealousy perhaps? Either way, relax and have a good time.

 

[Hawkeye88]

I agree... relax.

There are plenty of nice girls out there. Just like there are nice guys. But you aren't an adult yet, so don't worry about settling down with a girlfriend right away. Meet people, that's my biggest suggestion. Meet people and eventually you'll meet someone who you share a lot of similarities with. I might be in the minority of people on this forum who don't believe the goal of this website is to be shagging girls, but to meet girls and have fun with them. Experience life. So just relax man.

 

[Michael Chief]

what school do you attend?
try finding girls from more prestigious colleges and universities. They have already been handpicked for their intelligence and character by the admissions officers. on the other side of the coin, a community college would have alot of pothead slvts that gave up on their dreams and therefore practically gave up on their academic career when in high school. hang with a crowd of ivy leaguers or something lol

that's where all the nice girls have gone, perhaps!


[Edit - oops i forgot this was the high school forum. hey, just apply to schools with good reps and you'll inevitably find "nice girls"]

 

[GaryUranga]

I once found an "innocent" girl, but they all suck in the end, I actually like innocent girls myself but not puritans, stop trying to find the perfect girl and just go do a bunch of them

 

[Warboss Alex]

I have what you guys would call a 'nice girl' .. not a slut, not a huge drinker-partygoer, always prefers long, close relationships. Loyal, faithful, beautiful, sexy, considerate, thoughtful, easy-going.. everything a guy could ask for. But she's married. To me. HA.

They do exist, fellas. If you look hard enough, you'll find 'em.

 

[Nobody]

Nice girls are ugly...

Hot girls are *****es...


Just find a hot ***** and convert her. Nuff said.

 

[azanon]

I dont equate girls that like to f*** as being not nice. You have some morality hang-up issue Don Juan Wannabe.

Azanon

 

[Bvbidd]

If these chicks your talking about are fvcking everybody that sounds nice to me.

 

[Don Juan Wannabe]

Lol listen guys, I'm not dillusional, I'm not looking for a wife...im not expecting to find love either at this point either. I am looking for something a bit serious though, bit more mature and maybe thats not possible at this point...it is highschool after all. I'm more of a long term relationship guy. ok I'm not looking for a girl that thinks sex is evil like some churchie girls have been brainwashed to think. I sure as hell don't think that way as far as like the sex is concerned. If a girl sleeps with the guy shes going out with, sleeps with a guy she cares about thats one thing. Im talking about the girls that sleeps with a guys she met once at a party. You know the girls those speed seduction bastards go after. Ok and no I don't think all those girls are horrible either. Im not here to judge, some of those girls are fun, good people. NEVER someone I would date though. Im looking for quality not quantity

Anyone understand what im trying to say?

 

[Gmck13]

I can relate to what your talking about. Im not that big into drinking and all that either, though a little here and there doesnt bother me. Im not looking for a ***** that would give it out to me just as much as she would some other random guy. And thats how attractive girls feel about needy guys as well. So theres something to learn there, we like a little challenge as much as they do. Anyways, dont worry man, if theres not a girl in your high school that you like, worrying isnt going to help. Just relax and look around other places outside of your school. Theres plenty of girls out there.

 

[Patrick124]

Good girls.. I've found one.
and I broke her. ha.
now the best is a good girl in public, but a freak in the sheets.

 

[shadowfox]

i know what you mean and i agree with you... but this is a reason why we got to get good with girls, so we can attract the right girl when she comes.

 

[comic_relief]

thinks sex is evil like some churchie

It's not?!?

alright now in all seriousness,

in high school, you will not get that many good girls. I know that I could not find any of them. They are too busy just wanting to have fun. I know that I sure as hell don't want them. I found one nice girl at a summer camp and dated her for a year and a month until I got into college for a bit.

grim999, I agree with you. i go to a college right now with an Ivy League reputation and all of the good girls that go there are awesome. I started to see other girls and I am having a blast meeting a bunch of girls that do not go partying. They are not as fun, but I like them anyways.

Just have fun.

comic_relief

 

[Distant Light]

Every girl I approach, get to know in class...whatever. All they do is drink, party, and Fuk random guys. I mean im not into that crap at all...never had a cig, drink in my life...and yes while I'm as horney as any other guy, I don't think sex should be given out like candy.

You don't have to do any of those to party or to even talk to party girls. Sex isn't a big deal at all and you my friend make it seem like this very big thing. I also notice you have such high expectations and your not even that good yet. If you want to get good at getting women and want to get the type of girl you want you have to learn how to get women first. What you will realize is that every girl has a bad side no matter how good they are. When I mean bad side i mean the thought of them acting real slutty without getting judged for it.

If you want a better chance at finding a non drinker/smoker/sex craver then go to a church and screen for the very religious girls who are virgin's and waiting for marriage. Or else then I don't know what to tell you because many girls drink, some smoke and every girl wants to have sex. I have a feeling your going to have a hard time finding girls.

What it really comes down to is girls want to have fun and want that validation, that is why you see them going to parties and stuff. Your stopping yourself from getting real good by not partying too, you don't have to be a drinker, smoker to go partying. Other places you could try is Libraries, bookstores, or any really boring boring place, that you won't really find many hot girls going to.

 

[LegendBoy]

To the topic poster.. I have the same wants from a girl as you..

No alcohol.. No smoking.. Does not go to many parties.. Virgin..

I found one girl who fit that criteria and ****ed it up after we dated and hooked up.

But now I am looking for others thats fits that criteria.. In australia generally if you after aussie girls you get a non-virgin.. Unless they are the hardcore Christian and then you just get nothing..

Its a tricky question where to find the solid girls who have the same mindset as people like us.

 

[Michael Chief]

grim999, I agree with you. i go to a college right now with an Ivy League reputation and all of the good girls that go there are awesome. I started to see other girls and I am having a blast meeting a bunch of girls that do not go partying. They are not as fun, but I like them anyways.

which school? UPenn? im applying to Stanford, Brown, and Cornell as my long-shot privates.

my parents have always told me that i'd be happier if i went to a big-name university, but i never really believed them 100%. Now that i'm actually looking at these things from a DJ perspective, i see more of the light lol.

However, it's not like the girls at good schools dont go partying. Every school has all types and a buncha parties, even ivies and the big ten and etc. The top schools just generally have the cream of the crop from each "type" of girl.

by the way, comic_relief, i believe that quote in your sig is originally from Ghandi. Gahndi? Gandhi? I dont know where the "h" goes lol

 

[comic_relief]

which school? UPenn? im applying to Stanford, Brown, and Cornell as my long-shot privates.

my parents have always told me that i'd be happier if i went to a big-name university, but i never really believed them 100%. Now that i'm actually looking at these things from a DJ perspective, i see more of the light lol.

However, it's not like the girls at good schools dont go partying. Every school has all types and a buncha parties, even ivies and the big ten and etc. The top schools just generally have the cream of the crop from each "type" of girl.

Millersville University, its a public school with an ivy league education. It is mostly an education school. It is said that if you go to this school for education that you will have your job written for you almost anywhere, with an almost 99% for job placement. I believe it.

If you would like to take a look at it, than go to millersville.edu and check it out. It is friggen awesome with really nce people. About 8,000 students, so it is a fair sized school.

If you would like to know where we were. If you paid attention to the news lately about the Amish school shootinig, than I heard the police sirens that afternoon rushing to the scene. I'm about fifteen minutes from there.

comic_relief

 

[wayword]

All they do is drink, party, and Fuk random guys.

And people wonder how Skip gets laid? Welcome to America, buddy!

 

[Raikojo17]

k my man, i kno wat u sayin. i want a long relationship with a relatively good and faithful girl too. no *****s. but if they smoke and drink then i guess i dont really care that much. everyone have done it at least once, dont lie. but yea, some girls out there jus want to have fun and could give a damn about longterm relationships, but i believe a majority of them would like a good b/f. and jus because they party doesnt mean they all f**K suck and drink. they're jus havin fun. but if u wanna find girls, u gotta look everywhere, and always be ready to used ur DJ skills, even if u think there wont be any need. look everywhere, not just parties and in school, and you'll find em. there r out there waitin for u too.