"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where have all the good women gone?

SamTheHobit

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Are there any left?

Should I settle for the ugly b!tch?

It seems like every moderately good looking girl these days are so ****ing entitled, have no respect for men and have had tons of d!ck.

Sure there are decent girls out there, but for fvck sake are the odds really that stacked against the guys that want a decent girlfriend? And are not interested in sleeping around.

Has this forum made me cynical or am I just see it for what it is.

Help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't think they were ever "good" as your and my male brain define that word. General consensus and history seems to have them sitting somewhere at neutral.
Comes down to whichever way they are guided.

Lead them toward the right = Family values and home cooking.
Lead them toward the left = You go guuurl and fast food.

When we solve the riddle of where have all the good fathers gone I suspect you'll get your answer.
 

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You will have to find your 'compromisable' milestone of how good looking of a girl you want to settle down with versus how good looking of a heart she has.

Those two are usually OPPOSING polarity from each other. You will have to learn from your past experiences (usually painful ones as they get better looking) how much looks you can settle for and usually the woman has more substance inside to make it through the turbulance of life with you.

I have learned that HB 7+ are not necessary worth my time after having achieved the Holy Grail and getting burned incessantly. Not worth it - a good looking face and body only lasts so long, until the b!tch inside makes the outside looks hidous and a massive turn-off when time persists.

Finding someone who works with you and fits you well (sexually, emotionally, mentally) and not just settling for women that comes into your life by 'convenience' is the Golden Rule I have learned to live by.

Good luck.

With Respect

Exodus
 

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yaay he's back with more negative sh!t thats gonna last another 10 pages
 

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There were never any **Good** women

for most of human history women were OWNED mind body and soul by men

women were forced to be obedient and good...if they were bad they were destroyed

like animals if women acted up in the old days (except royalty) the men who owned them put them out in the cold to freeze or be devoured by wolves

thats why women developed the art of seduction..to soften men's brains...liberal men and the faggot elite have used this tendency by women to control the masses of men on the planet...thus women were elevated through law ..and here we are :)

until men once again force women to be their property there will be no order....I know a few of you faggots can't grasp this because when you read this you will get butthurt....thats how we know you are a tool of the elite...or just a tool
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So unattractive girls are 'ugly b1tches' and the attractive ones have many pursuers and aren't virgins, so they also aren't good?

You seem to be entitled to the attractive girls just holding out for you, SamTHeHobbit, which isn't going to happen, nor should it. An AFC who doesn't judge them has a better chance, because, women, like most people in general, find being openly judgmental unattractive and a major turn-off.
 

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Bushmaster said:
So unattractive girls are 'ugly b1tches' and the attractive ones have many pursuers and aren't virgins, so they also aren't good?

You seem to be entitled to the attractive girls just holding out for you, SamTHeHobbit, which isn't going to happen, nor should it. An AFC who doesn't judge them has a better chance, because, women, like most people in general, find being openly judgmental unattractive and a major turn-off.
I've been contemplating a life of celibacy.
 

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Bushmaster said:
So unattractive girls are 'ugly b1tches' and the attractive ones have many pursuers and aren't virgins, so they also aren't good?

You seem to be entitled to the attractive girls just holding out for you, SamTHeHobbit, which isn't going to happen, nor should it. An AFC who doesn't judge them has a better chance, because, women, like most people in general, find being openly judgmental unattractive and a major turn-off.
There are always exceptions to the rule but I wouldn't hold my breath. It's really miserable out there. Forget about finding a good woman. It's just not going to happen. The sooner you accept this the happier you will be.

I don't think SamTheHobit is entitled. He's only asking for a decent girl with a good head on her shoulders that he can enjoy. Unfortunately in modern society this is asking for too much.

The OP can judge how as he pleases. Though I wouldn't recommend judging openly so as not to hurt his chances at getting sex you have to remember that it is his life. He knows what he considers best for himself so maybe we can stop being judgmental towards those who have a level of expectancy.
 

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Your perception colors your reality. Picture it like this. On a piece of paper you have a black outline of a woman's form. The rest is up for you to fill in, and color them as you wish to see them.

However, the ****ty part is, that the crayons you get have already been worn down so it's tough to color them cleanly; or the markers you get are worn for ink and although you can color cleanly in the lines...the end result is a dull coloured image.

So, where have the good women gone? I'd say they are there when you're prepared...your crayons are sharp and the markers full.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
I've been contemplating a life of celibacy.
Maybe you should, unless you are willing to re-evaluate your outlook on dating.

Because if you are going to hold yourself to the same "standards" as you demand from girls, you will be damaged goods if you hook up and fail with 2 or 3 chicks..

Reality isn't always ideal. You want utopia, but it doesn't excist. You will remain bitter until you accept things for what they are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good women only exist in dreams and fiction. So does true love.

In real life, women feel so damn entitled it's unreal.

Glad I took the red pill.
 

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\O/ said:
Maybe you should, unless you are willing to re-evaluate your outlook on dating.

Because if you are going to hold yourself to the same "standards" as you demand from girls, you will be damaged goods if you hook up and fail with 2 or 3 chicks..

Reality isn't always ideal. You want utopia, but it doesn't excist. You will remain bitter until you accept things for what they are.
Sure I can accept things the way they are.. But I won't, that would be giving up on what I want.
 
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