"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where Does a Woman's Devotion Come From?

Jules Verne

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I was browsing this morning, and I caught a line that said, "Women love how men make them feel."

Obviously, that alone cannot lead a woman to stay with her man.

This board advocates devotion as one of many characteristics found in loyal women.

I am thinking that devotion arises once the degree of feelings that the woman experiences hits a certain point.

So where does devotion come from? And how is the woman's love, or devotion in this specific case, for the man, not the feelings he evokes within her, sustained?
 

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ganondorf

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a little thing called attachment, friendship, love, etc

alot of things. you can't just pinpoint it to one thing

that's like asking what makes you stay friends with your friends.
 

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A woman's devotion stems from how much she feels needed in the relationship. Which is why you have women who stay with guys who are alcholics or drug addicts, because she feels like a guy like that NEEDS her to get better.
 

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Jules Verne said:
I was browsing this morning, and I caught a line that said, "Women love how men make them feel."

Obviously, that alone cannot lead a woman to stay with her man.
We are all self serving creatures. The sooner you come to terms with that concept the better you will understand women and yourself.

The media would like us to believe that love is eternal and unconditional. Make no mistake about it: Love is very much conditional, and as long as you can make a woman go crazy for you, the longer she will love you. Same goes for men, would you really feel in "love" with a woman if she stopped sleeping with you or became fat and unattractive to you?! the answer is no.

Fear of losing a man is also a motive for a woman to stick around not just the way he makes her feel about herself.
 

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DJDamage said:
Fear of losing a man is also a motive for a woman to stick around not just the way he makes her feel about herself.
Women can not feel true "love" unless they believe there is something they can do which will cause them to lose you.

Aside from that the physical attraction and your attitude need to be in check.

Regardless, if you are dealing with a troubled one all the rules go out the window.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you can only be as devoted as your faith is deep.

if you have no faith in something, you will not be devoted to it.
 

Bass-Turd

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penkitten said:
you can only be as devoted as your faith is deep.

if you have no faith in something, you will not be devoted to it.

Penkitten Nailed it on da head
 
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