"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where Does a Woman's Devotion Come From?

Jules Verne

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I was browsing this morning, and I caught a line that said, "Women love how men make them feel."

Obviously, that alone cannot lead a woman to stay with her man.

This board advocates devotion as one of many characteristics found in loyal women.

I am thinking that devotion arises once the degree of feelings that the woman experiences hits a certain point.

So where does devotion come from? And how is the woman's love, or devotion in this specific case, for the man, not the feelings he evokes within her, sustained?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ganondorf

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a little thing called attachment, friendship, love, etc

alot of things. you can't just pinpoint it to one thing

that's like asking what makes you stay friends with your friends.
 

Vypros

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A woman's devotion stems from how much she feels needed in the relationship. Which is why you have women who stay with guys who are alcholics or drug addicts, because she feels like a guy like that NEEDS her to get better.
 

DJDamage

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Jules Verne said:
I was browsing this morning, and I caught a line that said, "Women love how men make them feel."

Obviously, that alone cannot lead a woman to stay with her man.
We are all self serving creatures. The sooner you come to terms with that concept the better you will understand women and yourself.

The media would like us to believe that love is eternal and unconditional. Make no mistake about it: Love is very much conditional, and as long as you can make a woman go crazy for you, the longer she will love you. Same goes for men, would you really feel in "love" with a woman if she stopped sleeping with you or became fat and unattractive to you?! the answer is no.

Fear of losing a man is also a motive for a woman to stick around not just the way he makes her feel about herself.
 

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DJDamage said:
Fear of losing a man is also a motive for a woman to stick around not just the way he makes her feel about herself.
Women can not feel true "love" unless they believe there is something they can do which will cause them to lose you.

Aside from that the physical attraction and your attitude need to be in check.

Regardless, if you are dealing with a troubled one all the rules go out the window.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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you can only be as devoted as your faith is deep.

if you have no faith in something, you will not be devoted to it.
 

Bass-Turd

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penkitten said:
you can only be as devoted as your faith is deep.

if you have no faith in something, you will not be devoted to it.

Penkitten Nailed it on da head
 
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