When I say dating I don't just mean going out with a woman and she just happens to have kids. There's that and also being in a serious relationship with a woman with kids. My opinion on the subject is that I simply cannot do it. I have no desire to take care of another mans rugrats. There's the element of the kids father(s) being troublesome and a ***** ass mother****er. Then you have to take into consideration what if you get into a relationship with this woman and it lasts a considerably good amount of time. What if ya'll break up and you're kind of the only "daddy" the kids know? How would that affect them? What if the mother is just a big hoe and has guys in and out of the kids lives? Call me what you want but I'm not playing daddy to anybody that doesn't have my blood in their veins. The only exception I'll make is if I have kids of my own and there's a Brady Bunch situation of some sorts. Other than that *STRIKE* I can't tell you how many conversations I've gotten into with women and I hear "well my son...." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jv163P-WQJ8
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where do you stand on dating women with kids?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
5string
Master Don Juan
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
I F them and keep moving ...let the desperate dudes be their boyfriend.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
When in doubt - ask yourself, "What would Leykis do?"
Short answer: You don't want to be responsible for 216 monthly payments for the next "accident"/"mistake"
Short answer: You don't want to be responsible for 216 monthly payments for the next "accident"/"mistake"
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
**** until she gives you a reason to dump. IE: Wants you to spend time with her kids, buy her ****, buy her kids ****, be in an exclusive relationship, cohabitate etc.
The only thing a single mom is good for is a quick lay or an fb. They're known for being great in bed, they're known for being horny. They want action.DonGorgon said:
You're goal is to bed her within 2-3 dates and either quit it or just keep her as an fb. If you're going on "play dates" to mini golf with her and her bastard son, if you're doing any activities with her and her son at all then you're doing it wrong.
If you got your own apartment you should never even see her kid. You can bang her at your place while her kid is with the grandma, aunt or babysitter.
If she asks you to meet her kid that's going into the danger zone and you should NEXT her asap to be safe. Your goal should be to have sexed her already before she even asks you to meet her kid.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
One Night Stand.
Nothing more.
If she's telling you that she wants you to meet the kid(s), you've gone too far and it's time to eject.
Nothing more.
If she's telling you that she wants you to meet the kid(s), you've gone too far and it's time to eject.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
To further prove my point that dating single mothers are a bad idea. Like Jamie Foxx, peep this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18WyL4OIpbg
I dislike single mothers because I believe that the only reason a woman should be a single mother is if she's been divorced, raped and didn't want to abort the child, or something unfortunate happened to the father. Other than that there should be no reason for it to just be her and the kids. Now of course I know some guys appeared to be great in the beginning but left them high and dry. I know that that happens from time to time but not ALL THE TIME. Some women just **** losers and have kids by them. Then they poison their kids minds, especially sons, that daddy wasn't ****. You ****ed him! So what changed? I hate it when boys grow up hating their fathers and have NO IDEA what really went on and they just run with that initial feeling. At least TRY to find the truth my man. And Lord knows we don't need anymore women with DADDY ISSUES! The whole thing is just a big mess with the male/female roles being reversed. BUT there are pros and cons to the whole thing and Tariq Nasheed explains it very well. Google Dating Women With Kids by Tariq Nasheed.
I dislike single mothers because I believe that the only reason a woman should be a single mother is if she's been divorced, raped and didn't want to abort the child, or something unfortunate happened to the father. Other than that there should be no reason for it to just be her and the kids. Now of course I know some guys appeared to be great in the beginning but left them high and dry. I know that that happens from time to time but not ALL THE TIME. Some women just **** losers and have kids by them. Then they poison their kids minds, especially sons, that daddy wasn't ****. You ****ed him! So what changed? I hate it when boys grow up hating their fathers and have NO IDEA what really went on and they just run with that initial feeling. At least TRY to find the truth my man. And Lord knows we don't need anymore women with DADDY ISSUES! The whole thing is just a big mess with the male/female roles being reversed. BUT there are pros and cons to the whole thing and Tariq Nasheed explains it very well. Google Dating Women With Kids by Tariq Nasheed.
luckily for me i've never been succesful with single mothers. for me theyre the hardest to game or bang. most seem to be stuck on their ex whether he's daddy of the year or a "loser" according to them. they seem to love to tell you all about it too for some reason.lol like i give a sh!t.
If you are under 30. Don't bother. If you are over 30, one nighter, **** buddies, don't meet or hang with the kids.
Or you forgot, guys who would not put up with bad behavior and walked. It happens more often than you think and no woman ever admits it. Ever. If you find one who does, she might still just be spinning another story to suck you in, or she may be a decent human being and have learned something.
ALPHAROMEO
Banned
no big deal if her kids are over 18 AND SEXY i start flirting with them
Bluntmaster
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 23, 2010
- Messages
- 606
- Reaction score
- 19
It's not worth it unless you are willing to step in and be the kids daddy. Because eventually she will want you to step up to the plate for an LTR. That's why unless you are willing to be the daddy, then don't waste much time with her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Avoid at all costs. No matter what, you will ALWAYS be secondary in her eyes after her kids. Really not worth the trouble. Besides, do you know what childbirth does to a vagina? It's much better to save your time and energy for some chick without kids instead.