"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where do you get touched?

whichonespink

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I'm just curious as to weather or not body type has any bearing on where a girl will touch you. I'm a pretty muscular guy and Ive noticed that if a girl touches me during conversation she'll grab my arms and not like touch them but kinda squeeze as if she's feeling me up. Also, I find that they touch my chest a lot. Is this where you are usually touched by a girl who throws in kino or do you get different areas? ...like I dunno the back of the neck or something
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lust

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Yeah I am pretty proud of my body and get touched around the chest area a lot because of working my pecs in the gym.

I've noticed high energy party girls keep grabbing my ass. And only them.

Smeh. I'm not complaining. :)
 

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for some reason women have a foundness of my head/hair.... and I don't have any (ceasar).. the big one, not the little one.
 

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It's crazy how its OK for a girl to touch your chest or squeeze your arms in passing conversation (clearly they are doing it becasue they are attracted to it). i view this the same as me grabbing a tit during conversation ...which im pretty sure wouldnt go over so well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I usualy get my nutts cupped...just in general and by random strangers,it gets kind of annoying at times :nervous:
 

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I had a similar situation:

i was telling my gf about how i plan to move out. And she got really attentive and started rubbing my thighs?

What was that bout?

She wants us to move in together?
 

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usually a girl will touch my chest, arm/shoulders or my ass.. kinda wierd when you arent expecting them to just grab your ass.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Usually I get a slap in the face, mostly in the check/jaw region. This is a form of Kino, amirite?
 

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I get pecs, shoulders and upper arms a lot (I'm kind of built). I guess I get my ass grabbed when they are just playin around (they figure that since I grab their asses at inapproprate times, they should be able to do the same to me)

And of course, they love to run their fingers though my "long, luxurious hippie hair". :p

However, it freaks me out is when chicks suck my nipples in bed. I hate that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whichonespink said:
I'm just curious as to weather or not body type has any bearing on where a girl will touch you. I'm a pretty muscular guy and Ive noticed that if a girl touches me during conversation she'll grab my arms and not like touch them but kinda squeeze as if she's feeling me up. Also, I find that they touch my chest a lot. Is this where you are usually touched by a girl who throws in kino or do you get different areas? ...like I dunno the back of the neck or something
Uh, they do the hand on my chest, which I love, and the latest is a woman stroking the inside of my arms. oh, and the side of my waist, where those stupid little "love handles" happen to be.
 

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Serialized3 said:
And of course, they love to run their fingers though my "long, luxurious hippie hair". :p
Know what ya mean, lol. Leaving your hair loose is ALWAYS a good way to pick up, as a lot of times a chic will just come up to me and start fondling my long locks, or tell me how "nice" my hair is. Good way to establish rapport and hook up :yes:
 

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whichonespink said:
It's crazy how its OK for a girl to touch your chest or squeeze your arms in passing conversation (clearly they are doing it becasue they are attracted to it). i view this the same as me grabbing a tit during conversation ...which im pretty sure wouldnt go over so well.
Lesson 1: A guys chest is different from a woman's chest.

Stay tuned for Lesson 2.
 

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Interesting.. Women a lot of times feel my chest as well... either that or my shoulders..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rrrrr

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Sounds like they are doing kino. They are trying to seduce you! Maybe there's a female version of this site! I haven't really paid attention except for the time some girl groped my ass at a bar. I suppose that's kino too.
 
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