"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where do you get touched?

whichonespink

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I'm just curious as to weather or not body type has any bearing on where a girl will touch you. I'm a pretty muscular guy and Ive noticed that if a girl touches me during conversation she'll grab my arms and not like touch them but kinda squeeze as if she's feeling me up. Also, I find that they touch my chest a lot. Is this where you are usually touched by a girl who throws in kino or do you get different areas? ...like I dunno the back of the neck or something
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lust

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Yeah I am pretty proud of my body and get touched around the chest area a lot because of working my pecs in the gym.

I've noticed high energy party girls keep grabbing my ass. And only them.

Smeh. I'm not complaining. :)
 

backbreaker

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for some reason women have a foundness of my head/hair.... and I don't have any (ceasar).. the big one, not the little one.
 

whichonespink

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It's crazy how its OK for a girl to touch your chest or squeeze your arms in passing conversation (clearly they are doing it becasue they are attracted to it). i view this the same as me grabbing a tit during conversation ...which im pretty sure wouldnt go over so well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Street_Fighter

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I usualy get my nutts cupped...just in general and by random strangers,it gets kind of annoying at times :nervous:
 

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I had a similar situation:

i was telling my gf about how i plan to move out. And she got really attentive and started rubbing my thighs?

What was that bout?

She wants us to move in together?
 

KnockoutJM

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usually a girl will touch my chest, arm/shoulders or my ass.. kinda wierd when you arent expecting them to just grab your ass.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Usually I get a slap in the face, mostly in the check/jaw region. This is a form of Kino, amirite?
 

Serialized3

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I get pecs, shoulders and upper arms a lot (I'm kind of built). I guess I get my ass grabbed when they are just playin around (they figure that since I grab their asses at inapproprate times, they should be able to do the same to me)

And of course, they love to run their fingers though my "long, luxurious hippie hair". :p

However, it freaks me out is when chicks suck my nipples in bed. I hate that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mental

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whichonespink said:
I'm just curious as to weather or not body type has any bearing on where a girl will touch you. I'm a pretty muscular guy and Ive noticed that if a girl touches me during conversation she'll grab my arms and not like touch them but kinda squeeze as if she's feeling me up. Also, I find that they touch my chest a lot. Is this where you are usually touched by a girl who throws in kino or do you get different areas? ...like I dunno the back of the neck or something
Uh, they do the hand on my chest, which I love, and the latest is a woman stroking the inside of my arms. oh, and the side of my waist, where those stupid little "love handles" happen to be.
 

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Serialized3 said:
And of course, they love to run their fingers though my "long, luxurious hippie hair". :p
Know what ya mean, lol. Leaving your hair loose is ALWAYS a good way to pick up, as a lot of times a chic will just come up to me and start fondling my long locks, or tell me how "nice" my hair is. Good way to establish rapport and hook up :yes:
 

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whichonespink said:
It's crazy how its OK for a girl to touch your chest or squeeze your arms in passing conversation (clearly they are doing it becasue they are attracted to it). i view this the same as me grabbing a tit during conversation ...which im pretty sure wouldnt go over so well.
Lesson 1: A guys chest is different from a woman's chest.

Stay tuned for Lesson 2.
 

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Interesting.. Women a lot of times feel my chest as well... either that or my shoulders..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rrrrr

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Sounds like they are doing kino. They are trying to seduce you! Maybe there's a female version of this site! I haven't really paid attention except for the time some girl groped my ass at a bar. I suppose that's kino too.
 
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