djjizzyjeff
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Curious since practically weekly there is a thread about some dude having dated a BPD chick. If so where do you find/meet these chicks? Not that I'm actually looking to find one.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where do you find these BPD chicks?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SeymourCake
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Online dating websites.
Women on those websites have a terrible past. My friend dated a girl that was on PoF, and it turned out to be disastrous. I'm glad he's not in that relationship anymore.
If they did not have a terrible past, then why would they be on that website the first place? Unless they are desperate, there's no other reason why.
Women on those websites have a terrible past. My friend dated a girl that was on PoF, and it turned out to be disastrous. I'm glad he's not in that relationship anymore.
If they did not have a terrible past, then why would they be on that website the first place? Unless they are desperate, there's no other reason why.
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They come along maybe once in a man's life. The red flag is when the woman hunts you non-stop in the beginning, sends you emails, texts like mad, and shows only one emotion - extreme happiness - in your company and compliments everything you do. You will never have someone treat as good, and you don't want to push them away because of this.djjizzyjeff said:
If it's too good to be true, it probably is. Once they assume control of you, you are DONE.
They will avoid Alpha types, but respect them more, and will date AFC/Beta types because it allows them to pursue selfish endeavors without much conflict.
TheFapPrince
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Mental homes 
Well according to this article 10 percent of the US population have BPD. So just like that dumb 80/20 rule about woman getting plugged by men, looks like it happens here at SS too. 90 percent of the SS population happens to talk to only 10 percent of woman. Just so happens that 10 percent they talk to all have BPD. What are the chances uh?
http://henrymakow.com/borderline_personality_disorde.html
http://henrymakow.com/borderline_personality_disorde.html
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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My working theory is that "Nice Guys" tend to gravitate toward BPD chicks, and vice-versa. It is a symbiotic relationship between the broken woman who is never satisfied and the guy who will bend over backwards to pedestalize the woman, fix/rescue her, and try to please her.
He will never be "good enough" but he will be allowed to keep on trying (which he will do, of course).
He will never be "good enough" but he will be allowed to keep on trying (which he will do, of course).
Read this post, you will understand everything.
And, SeymourCake is partially right, but on the other side, if you want to meet and bang girl withing 24 hours, and you succeed in that , what you expect, she must have 'something wrong' or she would't let you do that this such fast. Depends on taste some people love to get laid or even date with BDP girls, who don't like, just proceed to next one. And read this about why and how to recognize on time avoid BDP girls
And, SeymourCake is partially right, but on the other side, if you want to meet and bang girl withing 24 hours, and you succeed in that , what you expect, she must have 'something wrong' or she would't let you do that this such fast. Depends on taste some people love to get laid or even date with BDP girls, who don't like, just proceed to next one. And read this about why and how to recognize on time avoid BDP girls