Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Where do women get their "game".

nishbuk

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We all know that we have Sosuave, pua4life, and fastseduction to get ideas for our styles and games. There are also great books by guys like David D, Doc Love and Mystery.

Now, my question is this, are there any books in the bookstore that women read to figure their "game". I remember someone telling me about a women's date guide that was a bestseller in bookstores recently, but I can't remember what it was.

This got me thinking that it would be really beneficial to us guys, to read what they are reading, so we can develop a style to counter/mingle with it.

Anyone know any good sources other than magazines to read about this?

I've already watched sex and the city, and goddamn, does that show make it ****ing hard as **** for us. Some much BS on that show that women eat up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are probably thinking of "The Rules."
 

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Originally posted by Sloopy
You are probably thinking of "The Rules."
Hey thanks. I'll look that one up.
 

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/. wrong thread.
 

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do women even need game?

don't they just make themselves look pretty and wait for the guys to come to them.. then most of the time their lack of personality doesn't matter since they'll still get laid?

or are you thinking more along the lines of books that teach women how to trick afcs into marrying them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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muttley

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Originally posted by nishbuk
We all know that we have Sosuave, pua4life, and fastseduction to get ideas for our styles and games. There are also great books by guys like David D, Doc Love and Mystery.

Now, my question is this, are there any books in the bookstore that women read to figure their "game". I remember someone telling me about a women's date guide that was a bestseller in bookstores recently, but I can't remember what it was.

This got me thinking that it would be really beneficial to us guys, to read what they are reading, so we can develop a style to counter/mingle with it.

Anyone know any good sources other than magazines to read about this?

I've already watched sex and the city, and goddamn, does that show make it ****ing hard as **** for us. Some much BS on that show that women eat up.

I think most women know this shyt from a very young age. Some how girls just know it, well most girls do. Thats because when ever they are amongst each other all they talk about is guys and relationships. Compared to men, women watch a hell of lot of soaps/dramas/mushy love story movies/ and shyt like that to get some whacky ideas. And also theres magazines like cosmo and shyt that have that weekly article "how to know hes cheating" or "how to find mr right" blah blah.

Women have a lotta game, i know one female that has plenty game , i mean PLENTY. Some times she acts just like a male player, emotionless ( cos shes learned how to control her emotions well ) and very very caniving. We can learn alot from women sometimes and reverse what they do to us back on to them
 

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Women better be learning the Game! I can't stand women who aren't fun, charming, sexy and whole lot of other things. i want her to lead me along, i want her to test me, i want her to hang the phone up and i want WIN. i only want women that most poeple can't have. that most so called PUAs and Dons couldn't get even if their very tried. Cus i am here to compete. i'm here to be the best and score some tight sweet puss.

after all isn't life ment to be interesting?!?!?!

women do know the game, everything they read is about the game. the womans game vs men. the womens game vs women. the power game etc

whats nishbuk doing trying to read dating book for women by women? having a sex change buddy?
 

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most girls get "game" from their mamas.. or at least hispanic and black girls do. They mamas always tell 'em "Don't be gettin' with no broke nigguh! He better make good money! You better make sure he can take care of you!"

I think Asians and white girls imitate a lot of stuff off their favorite shows and teenie bopper magazines. They look at how Britney Spears treat kevin and then they'll try it out on their boyfriend. If Paris Hilton's doing it.. so will that white girl. Sometimes, it's okay to be like Tara Reid. That's where girls get their game...
 

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personally i think they get it from pure experience plain and simple.

The good looking girls WILL get approached and therefore they WILL get lots of practice. Whereas men actually have to learn at some point that to get ass they need to grab thier balls, get out there, and be the ones to initiate the courting.

Women don't have to do **** to practice thier mating game (other than looking pretty).

Unfair ? yaaaaaaaaa, but we're the ones who get to choose who we approach so it works out to be even :D
 

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Women get their game from simply being women among men who act like puss y's.

Women are emotional it doen's matter what they think they know they will fall to their emotions everytime. The problem is this culture teaches men to not act like men and this is where they get the upper hand.

They have talkshows, the life channel, oprah and despite that every day you see a ugly behind man controlling a gorgous woman. What's his secret? he knows beauty is vain and inside not matter how she looks women are all the same.

Tera Banks and Hallay Berry have said out of their own mouths they are insecure. Once a Man understands this, and learn to look past her looks and only see her soul a woman's "game" is useless.

From the beginning of time humans are the only ones of all animals of the face of the earth who have tried to change their natural behavior (well this culture) and you see the results.

The key is too ignore all the bs propragander the country bombards you with and do what feels right to you!

MAN UP!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Mintyfresh

Unfair ? yaaaaaaaaa, but we're the ones who get to choose who we approach so it works out to be even :D
Damn good point! Damn good.
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
[...] Tera Banks and Hallay Berry have said out of their own mouths they are insecure. Once a Man understands this, and learn to look past her looks and only see her soul a woman's "game" is useless. [...]

MAN UP!
Dude, that is a great point! Men act more AFC when they interact with a beautiful woman, it's a fact. The prettier she is, the more AFC the man becomes.

Once a man learns to ignore the physical beauty part, he will have his mind clear in order to see the real woman that stands in front of him. And boy, will he learn that many beautiful women are not so great after all. *sound of pedestal falling and smashing loudly*

Once a man can judge a woman on what she is worth INSIDE, he automatically becomes an ALPHA MALE. Wanted by most chicks, and he will be the one doing the choosing. Powerful stuff.
 

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Where is Doc Love's stuff? I've seen him mentioned here a few times, and I recognize the nick from old A.S.F
 

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they ware inpowered and treated like little princes since the they ware born.....that's why they already have the unshakable confidence (part of it any way)
 

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huh? what game? you mean playing hard to get and pretending to be busy...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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