"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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where do these overseas girls get their money from-japanese girl

joe45

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i went out with japanese girl i met at the bus stop. this was before Jen. she was nice and she lived around my area. so we chatted on the bus.we hung out. she goes to english ESL school. she didnt even work for those 2 years, but had money to go to Toronto, Whistler 3x's, banff...a few other places. she always going out drinking a lot, eating out , and shes also a heavy smoker. she had LV bag and wallet too. she lived in homestay.

i wondered where she got her money from. she said back home she was a childcare worker. so either she saved a lot of money back in japan or her parents are rich. who nows hey.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OFWHAP

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Japan has the world's second largest economy, behind the United States. There are plenty of wealthy people living in Japan. It's not as though this girl is from Cambodia or Nepal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Iceberg

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Yeah. And what's the deal with cats?
 
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