AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
On the ****? In the *****? Both?
Main plate getting tied up tonight.
Main plate getting tied up tonight.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Where do I put the ice cube?
- Thread starter AllDay85
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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Trace the muscles in the neck, down the spine (top of the neck to top of the azz), the backs of the legs, the groin area in front (very sensitive), the insides of the arms, insides of the thighs, anywhere & everywhere. Slowly & sensually. If you follow it in places with the warmth of your mouth or the press of your body, so much the better.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Ice is messy. Get those things you put in the freezer to cool drinks. They are encased in plastic, so they won't drip water everywhere.