"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where do I meet GF material?

Target_100

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The last two years I've dated approximately 50 girls and fücked about 10-12. They were all good looking, cute girls. (With one exception, lol!)

But coming to think of it, none of those are GF material.

After a week or so they are just not interesting anymore.

Where the cräp do I meet GF-girls? I'm thinking college even thugh I'm done there...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most stupid question ever. You can meet them anywhere, Clubs, Bars, College, on the street wherever. Theres no special place to go. I wouldn't bother to go looking for a girlfriend. Just keep going out with girls and see what happens.
 

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Target_100 said:
Where the cräp do I meet GF-girls? I'm thinking college even thugh I'm done there...
When you say you're done there, you mean as in, you just finished up running a 1-man wrecking crew or as in you are one of those alumni that just hangs around campus way past your expiration?

Start with pursuing your interests and you can easily find women there, some who can be easily weeded out as someone with a feigned-interest in the topic if you are the pro on the subject. Some others can be a good start, just get out there and go to those places which house ur interest. Or if you must go back to the college campus, get with the working professionals or grad students there, possibly. Try going back to the musical performances they host for cheap.
 
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