"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where did you meet your current g/f ?

Charisma

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Hellooo,

been so long since I've been here, but always a pleasure to pay this board a visit :)

Anyway, no advise or whatever from me, but I was just curious about that, where did you meet her. I'm not talking like one night stands or something, but for the people who feel they kinda have settled with one girl, where'd you meet her. I'm hoping that the conclusion of all the replies will be that it realy shows that even the craziest **** happens in life :cheer:

For me, about one year ago, on a freakin bus I never take.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jariel

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Don't expect many replies to this thread as I don't think many posters here have/ever had girlfriends.

Anyway, I met my current girlfriend, Lisa, via a friend. I'd seen her around, but she was in a LTR and I'd never had much chance to talk to her. Yet it turned out she always had the hots for me, so I got my friend to invite her out. She started hanging out with us, I got her number, then the two of us started hanging out.

One day she told me she was going to leave her boyfriend. I asked why and she told me she'd met someone who she really fancies and wants to be with a lot more. I thought I was in the friendzone and would have to listen to her talk about other guys, yet it turned out that guy was me.

I gave it about a month after she left her boyfriend before I asked her out, just to make sure she was over him. So far so good!
 

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I don’t gave a girlfriend although I am seeing people and just having fun.
 

WesCottII

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I met mine at the gym. We had nothing bu EC for months, thenwe just got talking, went from there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wheelin&dealin

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Yeah, you won't get many replies from this board.

Most the people on this board are single, then as soon as they get a girlfriend, they don't have a reason to post and take off..

I used to get out of hand with the posts back in the day, then as soon as I got a girlfriend I went on a 2 year leave of absence from this board.
 

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Yeah, you won't get many replies from this board.

Most the people on this board are single, then as soon as they get a girlfriend, they don't have a reason to post and take off..

I used to get out of hand with the posts back in the day, then as soon as I got a girlfriend I went on a 2 year leave of absence from this board.

ya thats true when I had my girlfriend I stopped coming here as often but when there is nothing else to do and im bored I go here and read some stuff.
 

backbreaker

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i'm single now, but my last GF I met at a Dillard's.. it was the day before fathers day and she was trying to sell me a wallet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i met mine in my eng class(in hs)... we were friends for a year but i didnt reveal a lot about myself, and now we're gf/bf :)
 

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I'm single now but I met my last one at a show my band played.
 

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Off the top of my head where I've met girls that I've dated:

studying at a library
through another girl
online
social dancing
school clubs
political events
 

DarkLight

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In Thailand, on the beach... while on vacation.

I was talking to some Danish dude, and was trying to explain to him what the term "cheeky" meant. lol

So then these 2 girls walk by... and I thought "hey, what a funny/cheeky opening... to ask these girls their definition of cheeky."

Anyways... one of them stopped, started BS'ing... and the other one that walked away turned out to be my later GF... lol

Wasn't even into her, but the b!tch was silent, so that created intrigue. Alls the standard Heaven/HELL story from there on out.

Needless to say... she was American (so am I) and a Flight Attendent... so it worked out, after the travels.

SuaveOn'
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

white_hype

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The Gay Bar

Originally posted by Jariel
Don't expect many replies to this thread as I don't think many posters here have/ever had girlfriends.
LOL! SO TRUE!

last GF met her at a party. I was talking with a friend and this girl came up and started talking to us. She turned out to be his friend and not that hot so I turned around and opened this HB (my gf) who was talking to a dude (didn't even notice). We talked for a little then some friends I hadn't seen in like 3 months rolled in so I stopped talking to her (excused myself politely lol) and talked with my friends. I saw her by the door talking to another dude and thought she was leaving so I immediately went up to her (didn't want to lose her... I really liked her but just HAD to chat my friends) and just told her flat out "hey I don't want to lose touch with you just yet. GIve me your number and we'll go out and have some fun sometime"

she did

rest is history (dumped her at the end of summer when she went back to her college)
 

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met her at college. classmates
 
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