"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where did I go wrong?

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Buddha_Mind said:
Losing someone a woman loves to a fatal accident might make her afraid to feel certain emotions again.
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You nailed it Buddha. She sent an email saying she was sorry for not contacting sooner but she was having a really hard time due to the holidays (our last date was just before Thanksgiving) and needed more time to deal with her loss. She said it wasn't anything I did or didn't do, just what had happened with her man. Now, I have already been out with another girl and working on a couple others as we speak but I really felt a connection with this one and would like to see her again. Any suggestions on how to convey to her that I would like to resume seeing her in the future when she is ready without coming off like a complete AFC who is gonna put his life on hold?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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