"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where can one post pics to get a real evaluation of your appearance

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And still remain anoymounous

I dont mean hot or not as no that is BS IMO Ive often had 9.0+ ratings with over 200 votes. Yet I look at other dudes on that site and even 65 year old bald dudes get 9.3 very often....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't know how old you are, but if you're over 18 you should know where you fall on the looks spectrum. Enough people would have told you or shown you by now.
 
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FairShake said:
I don't know how old you are, but if you're over 18 you should know where you fall on the looks spectrum. Enough people would have told you or shown you by now.
Well Im confused because

1. Sometimes people assume Im underage to even by cigarettes etc...

2. Some girls laugh or made fun off me

3. I have made out andhad sex with girls I rate as very cute.

Its weird my face is boyish but I have quite a large nose and very storng defined jawline. So, in someways I look atheltic and very fit. Which correlates with my bodybuilding, soccer and high tetsosretone levels. In fact my nose is kinda like a roman nose which is not attractive really but along with strong jawline shows stamina and power etc...My face is really chisled which is good but I wouldnt say my face is attractive. I used to have horrible acne so bad skin but thats clear though I have some scarring.

My body is like really skinny but defined. Some girls seem to like this other women think Im still a kid or underdeveloped.

I've literally had girls laugh at me then on other hand had girls stare at me or make out with me.

My face is IMO really really weird..Like an ''emo'' crossed with ''justin Beiber'' crossed with some ''ugly dude''. If I had a smaller nose Id be much more sure I was better looking.

So, Im confused this women when drunk once started saying I was beautiful which creeped me out but then other girls take fool out off me.

Also, I notice my hair is thinning (headfuk as Im real young) . When I have long thick hair I look ok when my hair is short I look bad. If I go bald Im gona be ugly for sure.


TBH i just have a real funny face. I guess you either love or hate it.. Its pretty unique IMO so I stand out. I see people stare at me on the bus in the doctros reception etc... Handsome definatley not....Quirky and a bit odd looking perhaps thats my attraction? I dont think its a thing that can carry well with age though. Im not classicaly good looking.

Anyway Ive been told girls arent as fussed on looks as guys?!?!?!

So, maybe Im ugly but have just been lucky aroudn cute girls that were drunk thats how I got them???!?!?
 

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So once you get this evaluation of your "funny face", what are you gonna do about it?

My point is - if you're skinny, lift weights. If you're fat, go on a diet. Your face is your face....nothing you can do about it, unless your self esteem is so low that you want surgery.

Stop worrying about things you haven no control of. And stop giving strangers the right to "evaluate" you.
 
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Iceberg said:
So once you get this evaluation of your "funny face", what are you gonna do about it?

My point is - if you're skinny, lift weights. If you're fat, go on a diet. Your face is your face....nothing you can do about it, unless your self esteem is so low that you want surgery.

Stop worrying about things you haven no control of. And stop giving strangers the right to "evaluate" you.

Ok good points.

I have gained 20lbs or so muscle. I wanna gain 15-30lbs more.

I guess my face is my face so whatever? I cared more bout my skin and acne but now that is clearing up my hair seems to be at the begging stages of thinning. FML....thats something for sure can make me ugly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you're old enough to go to a bar walk up to some ladies and tell them
Well what do you think? you should get your answer right away. don't rely on strangers to evaluate you. instead invest your time in your appearance and decide what looks best for you and go from there. you look with what you were given unless you get plastic surgery so go with what you got and make yourself look the best you can with diet, exercise, clothes, hair style, facial, hair and attitude.
 
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