"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Where can I meet High School girls?

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Ok, before any of you assume i'm an old pervert, I want to point out that I am a freshman in college.

College (so far) has been great, and i've been partying and hooking up like no other (though i partied alot in HS too).

but here's my gripe: at parties, the girls i meet and hook up with are almost all interchangeable. As pathetic and as gay as I might sound, they are all the same shallow, slutty, and materialistic (though hot) girls. i was tlaking to some of my close HS friends recently, and aside from the guys who have been in long term relationships, it really seems as though everyone is in the same boat (granted i'm the only one who is getting tired of it).

In college, all the intelligent girls seem to be in LTR and i realize how different college and HS are. in hs, of maybe 5 hot girls, only 1 was in a relationship. in college, everyone is looking for mates and of 5 hot girls, only 1 is single (and theres a good chance she's a slut).


anyways, before turning this into a rant, where can i meet high school girls (preferably seniors, though juniors arent that bad)? As it seems liek, HS (before I get any older) is the best place to find attractive single chicks, who arent sluts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're outta your mind, dude.

College girls range across the board from hot horny druken slvts to cute girls that are trying to get into medical school that aren't slvts and spend most of their time studying. And everything in between.

And now you want to head back to high school with social cliques, 10pm curfews, living with mom and dad, and trolling the high school parking lots in oder to lure under age HB's with candy?

You must be out of your mind. You are in candyland right now my friend. You have so many different girls from so many different walks of life, it's not even funny. You just need to open your eyes.
 
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you really think so? granted i totally forgot about curfews and stuff, as that totally slipped my mind; but in all honesty, the girls i hook up with at parties are all the same. the girls who i can atually see myself getting into a ltr with all tend to have bfs already. maybe i'm too narrow minded. I do tend to be attracted to the same "type" of girl (an old gf made me watch "the hills" with her once, and the girls in that show are my idea of perfect -minus the being totally spoiled part).

i will admit, that i'm pretty shallow. While being attractive isn't a hundred percent of what i look for, i most certainly dont bother at all with girls who arent attractive. I'm not mean or anything, i just dont talk to them.
 
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venser said:
Ok, before any of you assume i'm an old pervert, I want to point out that I am a freshman in college.

College (so far) has been great, and i've been partying and hooking up like no other (though i partied alot in HS too).

but here's my gripe: at parties, the girls i meet and hook up with are almost all interchangeable. As pathetic and as gay as I might sound, they are all the same shallow, slutty, and materialistic (though hot) girls. i was tlaking to some of my close HS friends recently, and aside from the guys who have been in long term relationships, it really seems as though everyone is in the same boat (granted i'm the only one who is getting tired of it).

In college, all the intelligent girls seem to be in LTR and i realize how different college and HS are. in hs, of maybe 5 hot girls, only 1 was in a relationship. in college, everyone is looking for mates and of 5 hot girls, only 1 is single (and theres a good chance she's a slut).


anyways, before turning this into a rant, where can i meet high school girls (preferably seniors, though juniors arent that bad)? As it seems liek, HS (before I get any older) is the best place to find attractive single chicks, who arent sluts.
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LMAO
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my logic might be totally flawed but my thought process is, that as most girls (that i'm interested in actaully dating) i meet in college are taken, they must have been taken between now and HS.

tapping into HS (before they are taken) just seemed obvious to me, I definately do see your [motown mack] point about all the troubles that went along with HS girls though.
 
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HIGH SCHOOL??

You want a drama queen who is stuck in this MTV "I'm a princess" mentality for a LTR??

Go for a girl who's a little older. Trust me. You don't want a g/f who's in high school if you aren't in high school. You'd be better off being single.
 
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i guess your right. I might be partially bitter also because as I'm currently a freshman, alot of the freshman girls go for older guys. i guess next year will be better. i suppose, i'll keep myself occupied with all the sorority sluts til then.
 
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one of the best examples of how interchangeable these girls i hook up with are though, is just a month ago i was doing this girl in her bedroom during a party at the sigma nu house and when i turned her over so I could do her from behind, i realized that I had fvcked this same girl almost 6 months ago in september becuase of the tattoo i recognized.
 
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i suppose you might be right.
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Honestly, bud, I feel sorry for DJs in highschool. It's like a prison that you can't escape from, where your reputation follows you around for 4 years. And I didn't have a bad high school experience either, and I still am glad I am not there.

To all my little homies that are going through this death march now, for 99% of you, it will get WAY better and easier (the 1% is the jock who seems to be gettin some, and it might be downhill for him-but even for most of them, it will get better too).

I am not saying finding girls in college is a picnic either, but at least there you get to meet some diverse people from different upbringings, that are outside the box you lived in for so long.

Besides man, you are too young to be thinking about an LTR right now. Work on building some skills and confidence with women every day (sounds like you're doing fine if you're getting laid-I am not sure what you are so concerned about that you would even consider such a drastic move). The great thing about that proving ground, is your rep probably isn't gonna follow you around forever, whether it's failures or successes.

Each day is a new one. Get out there and experiment.

I'm not mean or anything, i just dont talk to them.
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LOL. No comment.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Get out there and experiment.
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will do. i think i'll make it a goal this year to have a 3-some or something; somehting i've always wanted to do.
 
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venser said:
Ok, before any of you assume i'm an old pervert, I want to point out that I am a freshman in college.

College (so far) has been great, and i've been partying and hooking up like no other (though i partied alot in HS too).

but here's my gripe: at parties, the girls i meet and hook up with are almost all interchangeable. As pathetic and as gay as I might sound, they are all the same shallow, slutty, and materialistic (though hot) girls. i was tlaking to some of my close HS friends recently, and aside from the guys who have been in long term relationships, it really seems as though everyone is in the same boat (granted i'm the only one who is getting tired of it).

In college, all the intelligent girls seem to be in LTR and i realize how different college and HS are. in hs, of maybe 5 hot girls, only 1 was in a relationship. in college, everyone is looking for mates and of 5 hot girls, only 1 is single (and theres a good chance she's a slut).


anyways, before turning this into a rant, where can i meet high school girls (preferably seniors, though juniors arent that bad)? As it seems liek, HS (before I get any older) is the best place to find attractive single chicks, who arent sluts.
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Sh!t, I don't know what you are talking about. I know a bunch of single hotties that go to my college.

I go for the band geeks because they are a lot like myself.

Actually just off the top of my head, I can name 10 single hotties.

comic_relief

EDIT: btw when I was a freshman in college, I was getting with senior girls.
 
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one of the best examples of how interchangeable these girls i hook up with are though, is just a month ago i was doing this girl in her bedroom during a party at the sigma nu house and when i turned her over so I could do her from behind, i realized that I had fvcked this same girl almost 6 months ago in september becuase of the tattoo i recognized.
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Hahahhahaha, this is FUNNY.

OP, did you ever think that the reason these chicks are interchangeable is because you are meeting them all at house parties... and maybe you are going for the ones that make it easy for you (aka they are EASY).

Maybe you should start meeting chicks in class and at the library. Join a group. Get a PT job.
 
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