"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where can I go to learn to be a Real Man?

moneyisking

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You might think "Real Man? If he has many friends and gets laid a lot, he's a Real Man". No, No, No, No, NOOO. I want much more than that. We can't really define Real Man with words; there's too much about them we can't describe. But we know a man when we see one.

I think RSD Nation is one of good sites that can make me think more deep (not just about pvssy, but also as a man). Guys, if you know some sites, please let me know. I don't want to admit, but my life doesn't seem very good right now because I don't have guidance.

PS: Think about Real Man of History. Imagine if you met JFK, McArthur, Bruce Lee, Leonidas, Adolf Hitler (although he was ****ed up), Abraham Lincoln, Dr. King... Can you imagine how much of MAN vibe they would be giving? I believe that human beings can sense vibes and powers of deeper mind of others. I want to be like them, like Great people. I am tired of pursuing pvssy and trying to lose virginity, but I have to admit it. I love beautiful women, and I know knowing what to do and how to compose myself with beautiful ladies will make me happy; I know that. That's why I want to develop myself, not only for chicks, but for myself in general. I will feel even more happiness if I become the Great Man. I know Pook said "think and you shall become" but nothing comes free. To become Great Man, I know I must put in great effort. Thank you guys, and let me know the sites.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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Read "Year of the hare" by Arto Passilinna- it's a short novel.
 

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Stop looking for definitive guides online to being a "man". What you need is some good real life role models. Go hang out with real men and do manly things.

For me, it is where I work. I am the youngest employee there (I'm 20.) Everyone else is 30+. Most of them, married with kids, or divorced. I've learned a lot just from listening to everything they have to preach. They are full of wisdom. Not only that, but they are the father figures I never had growing up. I was raised solely by my mother. I was a beta boy, living the lies of feminism that would pounded into my brain my whole life. These men slowly set me on my path to becoming a man. I never realized it before, but I had a lot of feminine qualities. These guys would make fun of me and ridicule me (all in good fun), until I learned to change my ways. That's how men are. They will make fun of you until you make the change. Before then, I couldn't tell you jack sh!t about cars, or football (not that these things make you a man), but these are some of the things I began to slowly learn to enjoy. These invite me over for beers. We talk about woman. Watch football. And I'm pretty much in the clique now. These are only exterior things though. I also learned how to handle myself as a man. How to stand up for myself, and never take any sh!t. I used to just take their jokes, and laugh them off. Guess what happened after I started saying sh!t back to them? The jokes stopped. Just listening everything they had to say was intriguing. Especially from the divorcees. They all learned the hard way that you can not be a doormat, you must be the MAN. I've never even mentioned to them about this community, or that I even "study" pick-up or seduction and I'll be amazed at some of the things they say actually follows everything the Bible is built from. I wont say that they are always right, but these guys have quite a wealth of knowledge, and it was all built from personal experience.

You need to find a role model man. Someone you can actually look up to and learn from. A real man's man.

-Scars
 

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That is so true Scars, and in fact, i had a similar upbringing to you. A lack of male role models also, that changed a few years ago for the better though and i'v made friends with some cool guys and discarded 'friends' who held me back.

However, my main turning point was at the turn of the year where i met and befriended what i would consider, a natural. A 3%er. And now, my game has been improving exponentially! Still loads i learn from him though, i watch his style like a hawk.

We do martial arts at the same club, and there is a few of the younger guys listen to him as well. Now he ain't perfect, and he would never claim he is, instead he'd say 'He's damn near it'.

I think finding someone like that is probably the best investment you could make. And these same guys tell me about their role models that taught them the game. It's a legacy in some respects.

:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atom Smasher

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nomoremrniceguy.com

I highly recommend it.
 

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answer this to yourself, if i'm perfectly normal and being myself around women, they would love me. If that is true, then you have moved a step closer to being a man.
 

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moneyisking said:
I think RSD Nation is one of good sites that can make me think more deep (not just about pvssy, but also as a man). Guys, if you know some sites, please let me know. I don't want to admit, but my life doesn't seem very good right now because I don't have guidance.
do you just go on rsd nation?

you need to watch The Blueprint by RSD,
 

moneyisking

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thanks guys by the way im not in setting where i can find role models, b/c as college student, im not around very fascinating male role models or can actually spend time talking with em'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've wanted to take this Man's course for a while http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etdCNzzMV2w, but because I work so hard, on vacation, I just want rest, and I've spoken with Mr. Shipley through youtube and he's always encouraged me to come anyway, that "that's how some guys play" instead of sitting on the couch drinking a beer. It's about $2000.
 
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