Where can I go to learn to be a Real Man?

[moneyisking]

You might think "Real Man? If he has many friends and gets laid a lot, he's a Real Man". No, No, No, No, NOOO. I want much more than that. We can't really define Real Man with words; there's too much about them we can't describe. But we know a man when we see one.

I think RSD Nation is one of good sites that can make me think more deep (not just about pvssy, but also as a man). Guys, if you know some sites, please let me know. I don't want to admit, but my life doesn't seem very good right now because I don't have guidance.

PS: Think about Real Man of History. Imagine if you met JFK, McArthur, Bruce Lee, Leonidas, Adolf Hitler (although he was ****ed up), Abraham Lincoln, Dr. King... Can you imagine how much of MAN vibe they would be giving? I believe that human beings can sense vibes and powers of deeper mind of others. I want to be like them, like Great people. I am tired of pursuing pvssy and trying to lose virginity, but I have to admit it. I love beautiful women, and I know knowing what to do and how to compose myself with beautiful ladies will make me happy; I know that. That's why I want to develop myself, not only for chicks, but for myself in general. I will feel even more happiness if I become the Great Man. I know Pook said "think and you shall become" but nothing comes free. To become Great Man, I know I must put in great effort. Thank you guys, and let me know the sites.

 

[PapiChulo]

Read "Year of the hare" by Arto Passilinna- it's a short novel.

 

[Scars]

Stop looking for definitive guides online to being a "man". What you need is some good real life role models. Go hang out with real men and do manly things.

For me, it is where I work. I am the youngest employee there (I'm 20.) Everyone else is 30+. Most of them, married with kids, or divorced. I've learned a lot just from listening to everything they have to preach. They are full of wisdom. Not only that, but they are the father figures I never had growing up. I was raised solely by my mother. I was a beta boy, living the lies of feminism that would pounded into my brain my whole life. These men slowly set me on my path to becoming a man. I never realized it before, but I had a lot of feminine qualities. These guys would make fun of me and ridicule me (all in good fun), until I learned to change my ways. That's how men are. They will make fun of you until you make the change. Before then, I couldn't tell you jack sh!t about cars, or football (not that these things make you a man), but these are some of the things I began to slowly learn to enjoy. These invite me over for beers. We talk about woman. Watch football. And I'm pretty much in the clique now. These are only exterior things though. I also learned how to handle myself as a man. How to stand up for myself, and never take any sh!t. I used to just take their jokes, and laugh them off. Guess what happened after I started saying sh!t back to them? The jokes stopped. Just listening everything they had to say was intriguing. Especially from the divorcees. They all learned the hard way that you can not be a doormat, you must be the MAN. I've never even mentioned to them about this community, or that I even "study" pick-up or seduction and I'll be amazed at some of the things they say actually follows everything the Bible is built from. I wont say that they are always right, but these guys have quite a wealth of knowledge, and it was all built from personal experience.

You need to find a role model man. Someone you can actually look up to and learn from. A real man's man.

-Scars

 

[Huffman]

Where can I go to learn to be a Real Man?

In the Navy... dun dun dun dun

 

[DonJuan_DeRosco]

That is so true Scars, and in fact, i had a similar upbringing to you. A lack of male role models also, that changed a few years ago for the better though and i'v made friends with some cool guys and discarded 'friends' who held me back.

However, my main turning point was at the turn of the year where i met and befriended what i would consider, a natural. A 3%er. And now, my game has been improving exponentially! Still loads i learn from him though, i watch his style like a hawk.

We do martial arts at the same club, and there is a few of the younger guys listen to him as well. Now he ain't perfect, and he would never claim he is, instead he'd say 'He's damn near it'.

I think finding someone like that is probably the best investment you could make. And these same guys tell me about their role models that taught them the game. It's a legacy in some respects.

 

[vatoloco]

Here

STMF

 

[Atom Smasher]

nomoremrniceguy.com

I highly recommend it.

 

[ethan350z]

answer this to yourself, if i'm perfectly normal and being myself around women, they would love me. If that is true, then you have moved a step closer to being a man.

 

[kingsam]

I think RSD Nation is one of good sites that can make me think more deep (not just about pvssy, but also as a man). Guys, if you know some sites, please let me know. I don't want to admit, but my life doesn't seem very good right now because I don't have guidance.

do you just go on rsd nation?

you need to watch The Blueprint by RSD,

 

[moneyisking]

thanks guys by the way im not in setting where i can find role models, b/c as college student, im not around very fascinating male role models or can actually spend time talking with em'.

 

[Maxtro]

Want to be a man? Go to Man School

 

[Bible_Belt]

Muhammad Ali - How to be a Man 101:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=96863

 

[Poonani Maker]

I've wanted to take this Man's course for a while http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etdCNzzMV2w, but because I work so hard, on vacation, I just want rest, and I've spoken with Mr. Shipley through youtube and he's always encouraged me to come anyway, that "that's how some guys play" instead of sitting on the couch drinking a beer. It's about $2000.