regulus
Don Juan
I've heard so many great things about them 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Where can I find women with low self esteem?
- Thread starter regulus
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
IDMeansNothing
Don Juan
In the psycho ward! Just look for the chicks with cigarette burns on their forearms!
I've known one like that. She had lots of personal problems. She wasn't particularly attractive--a 5 or a 6 at best. I don't have the greatest self-confidence to begin with, and she was able to drag me down with her. Did the same thing to my friend. Would have definitely gone out with me too, but I wasn't the least bit attracted to her. I often heard her say she goes for geeks, so that also didn't do anything for my confidence. For a while, she went for one guy I knew who really was a geek in every sense of the word. He wasn't interested in her either (but often lead her on and played games with her, most likely to boost his own ego). I'm sure she would have gone for any guy who could "support" her. What DJ needs a girl like that?
trajhenkhet
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Too unstable to build a real relationship with. All too easy for them to fall for the "image" of you rather than you. See the problem?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ShortTimer
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EVERYWHERE!
regulus
Don Juan
How do I root them out and seperate them from the general population. I need a way of targeting them specifically. I'm not looking for a relationship, just sex and a learning experience. That's the brutal truth.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Street corners in bad parts of town?
suavedave
Senior Don Juan
im sorry
im sorry to say but im looking for the same thing.
based on the premise that : "If you date someone better than you, you might get hurt", I'm looking for chicks that are my equal or inferior. In otherwords, Im looking for 5-6s.
im sorry to say but im looking for the same thing.
based on the premise that : "If you date someone better than you, you might get hurt", I'm looking for chicks that are my equal or inferior. In otherwords, Im looking for 5-6s.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
trajhenkhet
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Date any lady that catches your fancy. One can give the body, one can give the mind, but one never freely gives the heart.
BobbDobbs
Senior Don Juan
In my experience, you'll have better luck with better looking girls.
It seems that low self-esteem girls or not so good looking girls are still trying to validate themselves in their own eyes -- so they are always trying to date the good looking guy.
I'm sure they get screwed over by good looking guys all the time, so why should they give it up to someone of even lower status/looks.
I've found that better looking women who've had a few good looking guys under their belt know that looks aren't everything and they no longer need that validation.
So aim higher. You tend to get what you aim for. Why take seconds?
It seems that low self-esteem girls or not so good looking girls are still trying to validate themselves in their own eyes -- so they are always trying to date the good looking guy.
I'm sure they get screwed over by good looking guys all the time, so why should they give it up to someone of even lower status/looks.
I've found that better looking women who've had a few good looking guys under their belt know that looks aren't everything and they no longer need that validation.
So aim higher. You tend to get what you aim for. Why take seconds?
If that's the kind of girl you want, you must have low self-esteem issues too. So I've devised a system for you:
Ask 1000 women for dates. The ones that accept and also go on 2nd and 3rd dates all have low self esteem. Congratulations.
Ask 1000 women for dates. The ones that accept and also go on 2nd and 3rd dates all have low self esteem. Congratulations.
regulus
Don Juan
your system sucks. most of us would prefer the path of least resistance. i'm not putting up with a lot of mess from females when i'm an easy person to please. that means going after females that are easy to please (non existant), or females who don't know how great they are.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.