"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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where can i approach/do the bootcamp?

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I am in high school and I do not have a car, which in my suburban neighborhood means I basically cannot get anywhere on my own. Since I am in many "nerdy" classes, I have no hot girls in my classes, so basically I only get to practice on the same few girls throughout the day. How and where would someone in my situation approach and meet new girls?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I really don't have a clue of the population structure and distribution in the area where you're living at.Be more specific.

Well,are there no hot girls in the neighborhood you live in?I'm sure there would be.I know that it's a little hard to hit girls who live so close to you do,but you have to,its the only thing you can do.

Oh,have you checked out girls in your school who're an year younger or older to you?Remember,it doesnt have to be from the same grade as you.
 

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I'm a bit in the same boat. No car, small school, I've already hit on most of the decent looking girls, I'm not about to lower my standards.
 
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