Where are you having success with women?

[John9999]

OK my post about using escort seems to of been a little too controversial. But that is what’s working for me currently. But I’ll be open minded and see if I’m missing something.

Here’s how I see it:
Online dating, dead, not worth the effort, used to be great

Approach women in public, with #metoo this can be a problem

The gym, nope everyone has there earbuds in and don’t wanna be approached.

Singles events, these are okay but the woman are usually average to below average.

So....... what’s actually working guys ?

 

[Robert28]

In person still works for me. I catch girls checking me out usually and sometimes I am in a position where I can start talking them up but other times it’s just in passing. I was getting out of my truck about to walk into the grocery store tonight and this car drove by me, cute girl in it just looking as hard as she could look. Obviously I couldn’t stop the car to talk to her but I caught her checking me out.

I think what’s attracting younger girls to me is I am in shape where I don’t look my age whatsoever so they figured in late 20’s to early 30’s. They have no clue I’m approaching 40 in a few years.lol

 

[zekko]

I think what’s attracting younger girls to me is I am in shape where I don’t look my age whatsoever so they figured in late 20’s to early 30’s. They have no clue I’m approaching 40 in a few years.lol

Yeah, that's really not so old for a man, if he's in shape and has his sh!t together.

 

[Robert28]

Yeah, that's really not so old for a man, if he's in shape and has his sh!t together.

Women my age think I’m too young and young women think I’m their age. Happens all the time.

 

[corrector]

OK my post about using escort seems to of been a little too controversial.

You do say "a little". Why do you think it's controversial?

 

[John9999]

You do say "a little". Why do you think it's controversial?

Everybody got all ethical. It’s just sex for gods sake.

 

[corrector]

Everybody got all ethical. It’s just sex for gods sake.

Which god?

 

[Spaz]

Work on ur social networking, women are naturally great advertiser's and can't help but show you off, even if u r just a mere acquaintance.

The catch is, you must be a great man - not necessarily rich but fun, wise, a great listener, friendly yet don't come across as a wimp.

That's where women get social proof amongst their peers - women needs men to climb their own female hierarchical ladder.

Work on that for long term benefits. Starting off might seem difficult but it's a cycle that never ends once it starts, you just need to play the game, roll with it.

The end game is = You'll be getting invites from women instead of getting on OLD or doing cold approaches.

From there you'll learn how to reject or dismiss advances of women or learn how to decline invites. Sadly I can't teach you this part as there no one rule fits all.

Meanwhile (whilst learning networking) grab memberships or at least try to get invited into clubs regularly - golf, yacht, polo, etc.

Another source to pool from but this is where women approaches men or rather its how I operate. I don't actively approach women but rather i entertain them when I'm approached, women are always approaching men who they considered attractive but mysterious.

Lastly but highly effective when in new surroundings, for example, when I'm posted in a new country, I'll link up with groups that's registered on FB - nature clubs, camping clubs etc. There's always more girls then men on those.

So these are various methods I traditionally meet young women.

Note: I don't as a rule date women off social media nor those I meet from night spots. Something you might want to consider doing.

 

[RangerMIke]

Online dating, dead, not worth the effort, used to be great

Never done it so I don't know. But based on what I read on this website and what I have heard from both men and women I know that have used these services.... all the business models for on-line dating businesses are flawed.

Approach women in public, with #metoo this can be a problem.

Works fine for me. But based on what I've observed... men fvck up approaching women in public because they do not know how to read body language. There is no magic pill you can take to figure this out, you just have to learn from doing. With enough experience you just 'get it'. Smile, be friendly engage in small talk for a minute, then get to the point ask for her number and take it from there. The final piece of advice I will give is that you should NEVER head out with the attitude that you want to meet chicks... just go about your business and if a woman you are interested in crosses your path then take action. This is NOT a method... it's just what happens. But really men have to know when a woman is open to them... it is instinctual... and it's little things she does, says, and behaves that will communicate with your gut that there is a possibility. Don't be afraid of #metoo, because if she is interested in you none of that sh!t matters. Chicks will only complain when they are approached by men they are not interested in.... just be the best version of your self and it will reduce the possibility a chick will think you are a creep.

The gym, nope everyone has there earbuds in and don’t wanna be approached.

Never bother a chick when she is working out. The gym doesn't work because of timing. You come in and she's already there... in her workout... Or you are there and she comes in. You are on different schedules and she is already doing something. After a group workout session, yoga practice, cross training, bike races, road races, works much better because you are starting and stopping at the same time, approach her after, then you have built in rapport... you can talk about what you just finished.

Singles events, these are okay but the woman are usually average to below average.

Never did this either, but I've had a lot of success at parties, business networking events, fund-raisers. To me these sort of events are contrived, and there are a number of women that do not go to these because then have a 'boyfriend', who is really just a dude whose turn it is. Women are always looking for their next carnival rider.... but few actively look to replace the guy they are with... but if it just happens... well then it is the nature of chicks.

So....... what’s actually working guys ?

After yoga practice works really well for me... also during business network events with chambers of commerce, just meeting women going about my life. Being social and showing up at stuff where women will be then having the balls to approach and try to make a date. I honestly believe that you can not do ANY of this with the idea that you are going to meet chicks... you just live your life and rely on serendipity.

 

[MatureDJ]

Here's a hint: