"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where are those billions of girls

Jamsmith

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There are billions of girls out there, but where on earth can you meet the ones you may marry.

Would you say cold approach or online...don’t like either,

If you go to events, most are just one of and other ones it’s hard to get to know.

Some people find it easy no idea how
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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andreihaha

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Where are those billions of girls?
Outside. It's great, you should try it!

There are billions of girls out there, but where on earth can you meet the ones you may marry.
Ones you may marry? Not the best approach.
I'm looking instead for girls I'd have fun with outside the bed.
I mean most attractive girls are good enough for some sex, but I'm looking for the ones I have something in common with.
So I'm looking for them in the right places, concerts/clubs with music i like, at theathers, bookstores, friends of close friends i have a lot in common with.
I'm not looking for a wife. But if I find one that's so good that I would actually consider giving up the rest of the female population, yeah, I'm gonna put a ring on it.

Ask yourself what you want in her/them and work from there.
Should she be of a certain religion? A certain background?
You should know, don't ask us silly questions.
 
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