"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where are the posting guidelines?

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I'm trying to figure out why I have to wait several hours for my posts to go live. Is this a trial period while the mods figure out if I'm a spammer or troublemaker or something?

Also, are there different moderation rules between Don Juan Discussion and Don Juan Tips? I want to post but there seems to be some vetting system going on which I'm not clear about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not that I'm aware of. Your posts should be showing up instantly.

Send a test post to DJ Discussion and tell me how long it takes to post. I'll delete it once we determine that.

Give it a title that I'll recognize like "Test message per Atom Smasher's request" or something like that.
 
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Atom Smasher said:
Not that I'm aware of. Your posts should be showing up instantly.

Send a test post to DJ Discussion and tell me how long it takes to post. I'll delete it once we determine that.

Give it a title that I'll recognize like "Test message per Atom Smasher's request" or something like that.
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It's okay. I've found that posts in DJ Discussion and Anything Else show up instantly. I posted a couple of times in DJ Tips and those were the ones which took a few hours to be allowed on there. So it seems like just that board has this extra level of moderation.

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Illuminatus
 
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