"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where are the posting guidelines?

Illuminatus

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I'm trying to figure out why I have to wait several hours for my posts to go live. Is this a trial period while the mods figure out if I'm a spammer or troublemaker or something?

Also, are there different moderation rules between Don Juan Discussion and Don Juan Tips? I want to post but there seems to be some vetting system going on which I'm not clear about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher

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Not that I'm aware of. Your posts should be showing up instantly.

Send a test post to DJ Discussion and tell me how long it takes to post. I'll delete it once we determine that.

Give it a title that I'll recognize like "Test message per Atom Smasher's request" or something like that.
 

Illuminatus

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Atom Smasher said:
Not that I'm aware of. Your posts should be showing up instantly.

Send a test post to DJ Discussion and tell me how long it takes to post. I'll delete it once we determine that.

Give it a title that I'll recognize like "Test message per Atom Smasher's request" or something like that.
It's okay. I've found that posts in DJ Discussion and Anything Else show up instantly. I posted a couple of times in DJ Tips and those were the ones which took a few hours to be allowed on there. So it seems like just that board has this extra level of moderation.

Thanks,

Illuminatus
 
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