"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where are the exciting nice guys?

The Monkey

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Luann Comic Strip - Where are the exciting nice guys?

"Exciting nice guys" are Don Juans. We don't treat our women like so much trash to be thrown out, like the jerks, but aren't boring and dull and bring our dates flowers every. single. fricking. evening.

We are exciting, we are different. We take care of what is ours, but we don't lavish ours with gifts and compliments.

And we're so rare, the girls think guys like us are only in movies.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best friends? NAY

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Read, it in the morning and sort of laughed to myself. But this should be in discussion aye? not tips.
 

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Heh, so true.
 
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