"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When you're just walking down the street on a weekday...

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SamMalone

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...what are you usually wearing? Like if you were just walking around, getting a few things done. I usually wear collar shirts, jeans, and brown boots (usually with nice sunglasses). Would sports jackets and a nice under-shirt be appropriate for this scenario or should that be saved for business casual times, like dinners in classy places?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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white_hype

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wtf?

where whatever the fvck you want. Trust me on this, NO ONE gives a fvck. Name something 1 stranger wore 3 days ago. If you can do that (unless it was some hot girl) then you need more hobbies lol

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yesterday I went to the bookstore (didnt want to sarge) and wore a pair of gym shorts, sneakers, and some sority shirt.

Is this a real thread and did I just reply to it?
 

BuckwildNYC

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Don't listen to the haters. Clothes in many ways make the man.
I know I get alot more attention when I'm wearing slacks and a button down as compared to jeans amd a sweatshirt. A sports coat my be a bit much but definately dress to impress at all times.

You never know WHEN you are gonna run into the girl of your dreans.
 

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I am so 'fortunate' (if you can call it that) to live in Australia where the people have ZERO NIP NONE NADE fashion sense at all, so I get away with wearing sh*tty ass clothes. My normal day to day clothes are usually a board shorts, a tshirt and flip-flops. That's it.
 

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http://tinyurl.com/87xbb

This is how I usually look when I go anywhere. Like it or not, I dress that way because I want to, not because I might sarge someone when I'm out and about, although it does happen...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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I wear different things all the time. If im just running to the store i wear basketball shorts and a tshirt, sometimes an undershirt. To school i might wear the same thing sometimes. Sometimes i will wear a long pair of cargos and jeans and a shirt. I get looks from women all the time..clothes dont matter as much as you think. If you're muscular, and stand straight you will get noticed no matter what you're wearing. I laugh at all theese f@gs that buy all that crap.italian shoes, glasses(lmao) just to school or somethin.
 
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