"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You don't need advice from people because you would know what you want to do. So if your in here looking for an advice your soul is in a cage crying to let himself out. My soul is free and I'm not here for advice. I'm here to help you geeks ungeek yourselves. You wont get confidence by listening to peoples so called advice. You will only become confident when you wont need anyone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Um, didn't you say that self confidence doesn't mean anything because you can get laid whether you have it or not? So, who gives a sh1t?
 

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No I said self confidence wont get what you want. You get what you want then you get confidence.
 

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enthusiast said:
No I said self confidence wont get you laid. You get laid then you get confidence.
I can agree that getting women makes you feel more successful with them. Rejection has the opposite affect. Getting laid isn't all there is in life, and it's definitley not going to build my confidence, but it helps me get a good nut.
 

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No one believe what this Chump Entusiast says. I've been seeing all most of his post and he sounds like a good ole CLASS A TROLL. Move along here nothing to see
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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