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When your "oneitis" girl likes you

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I've had oneitis maybe three times, and two of those times the girl ended up liking me. However, I always f'uck it up because when you have oneitis for a girl you get too nervous/unnatural to communicate with her comfortably. This is just a lesson on oneitis: If you have oneitis for a girl, you will not get that girl. She will either not like you, or you will f'uck it up if she does like you. Oneitis is unnatural and it rarely if ever leads to a good relationship.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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most of the girls i've had oneitis for (in the recent past) refuse to date anyone. So that kinda makes me feel better in some ways.

but yeah, your post is true
 
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I disagree. Usually when I have 'oneitis' its the girl whos way more interested in me. Like to the point where they are basically stalking me and when in my presense are very obviously nervous to the point where they can't talk and stuff. Also the whole thing about not being able to get girls to drop their strategies and that ****.. thats a myth too. I got a oneitis to drop the games because she had been playing hard to get and I wouldn't budge. I even got her to basically pursue me. Just would go everywhere I went.. made friends with my friends. Made it very obvious. To the point where I could not screw it up. I really disagree with this stuff.
 
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dap said:
I've had oneitis maybe three times, and two of those times the girl ended up liking me. However, I always f'uck it up because when you have oneitis for a girl you get too nervous/unnatural to communicate with her comfortably. This is just a lesson on oneitis: If you have oneitis for a girl, you will not get that girl. She will either not like you, or you will f'uck it up if she does like you. Oneitis is unnatural and it rarely if ever leads to a good relationship.
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exactly what happened/is happening to me. This girl likes me but I'm never fully natural around her. If I was I swear she'd be in love with me.

I gotta break my comfort barrier with her, that's all
 
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Its just in your head man. It does not matter how much you like her. Its completely based on how much she likes you. And since girls are way more emotional its more likely that she likes you more.
 
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