"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When your gal says "I need some time to myself", is she really saying that she is looking to do a branch-swing upgrade?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That depends on a lot of factors. If you are spending every waking moment together (nothing that I would allow to happen anymore), I would be the first to say this. Just some time to decompress, process your thoughts, scratch, or whatever else you want to do. Everyone needs space. If your girl says this, you are probably smothering her. As it has been said on here countless times, "give her the gift of missing you" and do what you want with your time.
 
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