When you THINK you've met one of those rare "good" girls...

[JohnChops]

What's up SS long time no talk. Here's what I feel like talking about. I recently started talking to this girl , I've known her pretty much my whole life except we split paths after middle school (good god years ago!) And now were both in college. She's one of those all around good girls, very smart, and all that jazz.

Now here's one of those traps that many people , including myself, fall into sometimes when we get blind sided by such a girl (which is a change of pace from the usual wh0res we all know and love).

You get caught up in the fact that she's this nice girl but SHE IS STILL A GIRL. For example I couldn't even imagine sex with this girl unt she started talking a little dirty and flirting with me.

I wanted to make this thread to remind people that just because you meet a "nice",girl it does NOT mean that she doesn't want all the same things other girls wants because she is indeed a girl! (GASP!).

Obviously this means escalate , sex, and don't hesitate with anything. Thoughts and inputs always welcome here.

Later SS.

 

[zekko]

You get caught up in the fact that she's this nice girl but SHE IS STILL A GIRL. For example I couldn't even imagine sex with this girl unt she started talking a little dirty and flirting with me.

I wanted to make this thread to remind people that just because you meet a "nice",girl it does NOT mean that she doesn't want all the same things other girls wants because she is indeed a girl! (GASP!).

Obviously this means escalate , sex, and don't hesitate with anything. Thoughts and inputs always welcome here.

Agreed. Once you figure out what a girl is, this sort of thing stops being confusing.

 

[happyDJ]

Agreed. Once you figure out what a girl is, this sort of thing stops being confusing.

Exactly. It's like you suddenly understand the language of the foreign country you were in.

 

[Darth]

Obviously this means escalate , sex, and don't hesitate with anything.

No, not obviously. There are some girls that actually ARE good girls. I talk about this til I'm blue in the face and nobody here seems to get this.

If you ASSUME all girls are slvts, all you will FIND are slvts.

 

[GS750]

Not all of them are sluts. But they all like sex just as much as guys do.

 

[iamnobody]

John, given the right circumstances EVERY girl turns into a vvhore faster than a speeding bullet. Expecting anything else is putting her on a pedestal.
Your best position into all this is to BE that circumstance. Be alpha. Nothing more, nothing less.

Edit:
Also, a good rule is this one: if she is sweet and ingenue, chances are she had at least one threesome in her life.

 

[Darth]

Some of them have control over their desires for a higher good.

 

[Renegade357]

Haha, "nice girls" can be the most dangerous and deceiving mind screws out there. Proceed with caution always and beware of stealth models. Best to treat all women the same.

 

[Darth]

Best to treat all women the same.

That I agree with.

 

[Serenity]

I can definitely relate to this! I did however last 4 dates and 3 fvcks before my integrity broke down and I got mixed signals. Luckily I knew I was fvcked and gave it up.

I did get it without much effort since I was in a state of "I want you and I don't give a fvck".

 

[Darth]

My point is, when one of these "rare" girls starts "talking dirty", don't think you actually have one of the good ones; you just have a dirty girl in sheep's clothing.

That doesn't mean that there are no sheep out there.

 

[JohnChops]

No, not obviously. There are some girls that actually ARE good girls. I talk about this til I'm blue in the face and nobody here seems to get this.

If you ASSUME all girls are slvts, all you will FIND are slvts.

In no where in my post did I use the word slvt. Don't assume just because I meant "escalate to sex" it means shes a slut. I'm talking about doing what youre going to do with all women no matter slvt, wh0re, good girl etc and that is get laid. Never said she was a slvt at all.

@iamnobody damn dude! time to leave SS and get rid of that attitude.

@Renegade - agreed, im not treating her any different.

 

[Bizzle13]

In my experience the good girls are the biggest head f*cks. While you're beginning to think about ltr and bordering on afc behaviour she's getting attention from other guys who've fell for the same act. If anything they're over-compensating for their sl*tty nature.

Before some keyboard warrior calls me butt-hurt I've just learned my lesson through experience and learned to not treat girls any better based on my perception of them - good, bad, sl*tyy, shy. They're all the same haha

 

[JohnChops]

In my experience the good girls are the biggest head f*cks. While you're beginning to think about ltr and bordering on afc behaviour she's getting attention from other guys who've fell for the same act. If anything they're over-compensating for their sl*tty nature.

Before some keyboard warrior calls me butt-hurt I've just learned my lesson through experience and learned to not treat girls any better based on my perception of them - good, bad, sl*tyy, shy. They're all the same haha

I'll take that into consideration for sure, good stuff. I'm not really thinking about LTR at all but she is. Last night she was trying to get me to admit "I think you kind of like me...tell me tell me etc" after she said "I think I kinda like you " obviously i didnt tell her that, pft thats rule numero uno .

I would say shes the one who is more attached at this point.

I wish I could relate to the whole good girl thing but ill be honest ive never really talked to many, I usually like b1tchy girls (For whatever reason) and this is my first go with someone who is smart, nice, and not a head case (so far, however all women are a little head caseyy).

Ill keep you guys updated, now im curious to see how this plays out and who was right and who was just being wrong and negative.

 

[mikey2012]

Haha, "nice girls" can be the most dangerous and deceiving mind screws out there. Proceed with caution always and beware of stealth models. Best to treat all women the same.

This is truth . Had one gal who I thought was different , not materialistic, easy going and cool. After 9 months she was the most materialistic , anal, evil human being I have ever met.

 

[Aristippus]

You CAN'T assume that just because a woman gives the initial appearance of being a good girl that she is. To really know for sure, you have to be in a relationship with a woman for at least 2 or 3 years. Many women put on a sweet act in the beginning. Also, it is easy to be sweet when you're dating and you only see her when the circumstances are ideal (when you're out having fun or having fun together at your place).

A woman could appear to be a good one at first and then start showing problematic behaviors later. And by problematic behaviors, I'm not talking about sleeping around. A woman could be completely addicted to you sexually and still display problem behaviors like being unthankful, with a sense of entitlement or disrespectful or just stubborn, inflexible and a general pain in the a$$ to deal with.

Many women are so used to getting their way all the time in relationships that when a man comes along and doesn't always do things her way, she will throw tantrums like a child or nag or act stubborn and resist any decisions he makes that aren't exactly what she wants. Many women expect men to take responsibility for the consequences of her decisions, whether the consequences are bad, because she's making stupid decisions or if her decision will create extra burdens of responsibility that are unnecessary, many women simply expect the man to go along with whatever they want.

They want him to take responsibility for HER decisions (instead of sharing the decision-making together and yielding to the man of the house if he decides that going through with a plan will make his already heavy load of responsibilities too big of a burden, or simply an extra burden he chooses not to carry), yet at the same time, they don't feel they should have to listen to him or compromise on some things and refuse to put herself under his authority, despite the fact that she wants him to protect and provide for her (for longer term relationships). Many women these days want the man to have all of the responsibilities without having an ounce of authority in the relationship. This is equal to slavery. A slave works for his master, provides the master with the fruits of his labor, but has no say. This is what many women these days want. A workhorse, a provider of pleasure, who will do what she wants when she wants without question, sacrificing the fruits of his labor and his freedom for a thankless, bossy, nagging wife.

This scenario is actually about 100 times more insidious than a woman simply cheating. With cheating, you know exactly where you stand. in this situation, it is so widely accepted as "normal" ,even though it is actually the blueprint for an unhealthy relationship with mostly one-sided sacrifice on the man's part. So you really can't tell just from being in a relationship with a woman for a few months if she's one of those rare good girls.

The more involved in her life you become, the more likely you'll be able to tell whether or not she is. As a general rule: The more involved you become with a woman, the more drama, headaches, and aggravation you will have to deal with. The LESS you involve yourself with a woman and her life, the less crap you have to deal with.

This is such a universal law that it should be etched in the sun or the side of the moon so every man could see it and be reminded of it daily until it is burned into his brain.