"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you see 3 people in this combination, what do you think?

BetterCallSaul

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Was curious if I was the only one who thought this way.

Typically when i see 20-30 year olds, 1 woman and 2 men, I almost always figure that she's banging both of them on a strictly casual FWB basis and they let it happen because they're weak willed males.

Now same age group, 1 man and 2 women, it always seems to me the guy is banging one of them and the other chick is the girl's friend who's just along with nothing else to do.

I post this only because today is kinda slow at work and I can always see people walking around and I sometimes see this combo.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bible_Belt

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If this thread were a court case, I'd file a motion to dismiss.

It's just your perspective bias. The guys I have known of who identify as polyamorous typically get a lot of pvssy because of it. Some of them will have a wife plus two or three girlfriends, all of whom are cool with the arrangement. The women are usually allowed to do as they please, but female nature leads them to just be interested in one guy at a time, even if they share him with other women.
 
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