"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As in getting the most likes for your posts, most followers, and posters that agree with your theories is it jealousy that gets these same types of posters banned for being too influential?

Or is it because they've worn out their welcome and SS decides it's time for them to take the training wheels off and be free to ride off into the sunset to put their legendary theories in practice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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As in getting the most likes for your posts, most followers, and posters that agree with your theories is it jealousy that gets these same types of posters banned for being too influential?

Or is it because they've worn out their welcome and SS decides it's time for them to take the training wheels off and be free to ride off into the sunset to put their legendary theories in practice?
It's mainly rudeness to others, I imagine. I could be wrong, though.
 

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It's very simple. Moderators don't understand the rules.

But we all know it's deeper than rules itself. Egos.

I'll use Poon King as an example, his notoriety and popularity is bound to spark hidden hatred and create enemies between members of the community.
Once you reach a level of popularity, all rules must be obeyed, unless you're troll or a sh!t poster then the rules turns into, must be "accepted". Very different concepts.

When the rules state that you must not insult members of the community it turns into "suck it up", "ignore" and "giving too much of a fvck about other peoples' opinions of you." But when you counteract and defend yourself from these obvious rule breakers, you're the one that gets punished. Not the troll.

There's so many "trolls" I believe should be banned from this site. Many of them who break these rules all the time but are still here because they're in good graces with the right people.
 

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But when you counteract and defend yourself from these obvious rule breakers, you're the one that gets punished. Not the troll.
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Starting, you do realize you are speaking to a troll. LOL

Duro=Savage=9Volt=NaughtyNinja

This troll is quite pathetic, but at least he's persistent.
 

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Starting, you do realize you are speaking to a troll. LOL

Duro=Savage=9Volt=NaughtyNinja

This troll is quite pathetic, but at least he's persistent.
You're only looking at the pawn. Look at the chess board. I'm spreading a message.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're only looking at the pawn. Look at the chess board. I'm spreading a message.
Oh I see, but wouldn't you be doing all a disservice by failing to name whom should be banned? Light them up.
 
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