You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
^ that is also true but if becomes hard to get noticed when she get 20 numbers a day... We need to have some good gimmicks to stand out.. like maybe a puppet or a Rolls royce..Guitar_Whizz said:The answer is: it depends on the impression you made on the girl during your approach. A girl will only give you her number 'to get rid of you' if you gave off a bad or creepy vibe or something.
Instead of worrying about getting fake numbers, get to the root cause of the problem, which is YOU. Work on bettering yourself and bettering the vibe you project when you approach a woman. Before you approach a girl, ask yourself "How can I brighten her day a little?".
Basically, if a girl gets good feelings from being around you, she is far less likely to give you a flakey number.
One thing you're all missing, though, is that you should ONLY get a girl's number as a last resort. You should try to get to go for a cup of coffee with you there and then. If logistics are not possible, for whatever reason, ONLY THEN do you settle for the number.
I've found this a better and more efficient approach.
Hope that helps.
No you don't need gimmicks or all that nonsense. Gimmicks are just FALSE ways of making up for a lack of value that you project.DonGorgon said:^ that is also true but if becomes hard to get noticed when she get 20 numbers a day... We need to have some good gimmicks to stand you.. like maybe a puppet or a Rolls royce..
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
^^^Brilliantly true...:cheer:Guitar_Whizz said:No you don't need gimmicks or all that nonsense. Gimmicks are just FALSE ways of making up for a lack of value that you project.
Instead, learn to project the aura of a confident, fun, masculine man, and you'll have no problem making a knockout impression.
And did you read what I said? I said you should be trying for INSTANT DATES, not phone numbers. Seriously, every chump is asking for her number; you want to stand out by being the MAN and asking her to join you for coffee there and then. This is how you get same day lays consistently. As I said, ONLY get a number if for whatever reason an INSTANT DATE was not possible.