"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you know you screwed up telling a girl you like her

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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?

How do you backtrack if u tell her you like her?

All right fella.....My ***** side is gonna come out but I got to speak my mind.....you can't tell someone that you like them one visit and then the next time tell them u like them but you don't care. Either u like them and u do care or u don't like them and don't care. U can't do both. It's like I told u, you can't mix ****ing and feelings. If we're gonna **** and kick it then don't tell me that u like me.....all you're doing is giving me false hope. I know you're guarded but u usually can't take certain things back (i.e. I like you.) This may sound *****y but I'm gonna say how I feel and u can do with it what u want.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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