"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When you know you screwed up telling a girl you like her

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On average with yall how long do u end up sleeping with girls till they are forcing u to commit or they walk? And how do u keep it a friends with benefits? Obvioisly saying that to a girl turns her off so WTF!?

How do you backtrack if u tell her you like her?

All right fella.....My ***** side is gonna come out but I got to speak my mind.....you can't tell someone that you like them one visit and then the next time tell them u like them but you don't care. Either u like them and u do care or u don't like them and don't care. U can't do both. It's like I told u, you can't mix ****ing and feelings. If we're gonna **** and kick it then don't tell me that u like me.....all you're doing is giving me false hope. I know you're guarded but u usually can't take certain things back (i.e. I like you.) This may sound *****y but I'm gonna say how I feel and u can do with it what u want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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