"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Watch College Football, or play the piano.

I don't know what it is about football, but i love the strategy that goes along with the game. A good offensive or Defensive coordnatior is a football genius. Norm Chow is probably the best person I have ever seen at exploiting a teams weaknesses.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
I don't know what it is about football, but i love the strategy that goes along with the game. A good offensive or Defensive coordnatior is a football genius. Norm Chow is probably the best person I have ever seen at exploiting a teams weaknesses.
College football pretty much consumes my weekend also. But god I love it.

Then there's the parties, I also hang out at my friends a lot, play some video games when nothing else to do, and try to squeeze some homework in there every so often. I think I'm gonna join a SAE forumula-1 car buildup here but we'll see how that goes. I love cars.
 

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BELIEVE IT or not, that's how I started getting into football.

I didn't even know what football was until i was 12 (dead serious)... My dad bought me Madden for my birthday and I was like "what the **** is this" Then I started playing it and it was pretty fun and all, and the more complex the games got the more I realized that football is the ultimate strategy game.


Here is a fun hobby that I used to do but don't anymore because I know pretty m uch anythinhg there is to know... learn how to dance. I mean really dance. It's time consuming and you will actually be learning something that will get you cool points in the future
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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golf, gun range, drive the back roads and carve up the twisties. I'm planning a mini road trip to the north ga mountains with friends, just to drive around the montains. I'm actually modding the suspension of my car for this trip.
 
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