When you have success with women, other girls get mad? wtf?

[FM 3321]

So I just got off the phone with my best female friend and we just talk about everything but she always gets mad for little things I do.

I've been meeting more girls and having more success with women in the past couple months more than any time in my life and my female friend says "you're being more of a jerk", "you're talking too sarcastic to me", "don't ever treat me like you treat these girls", "I've had many guys in my life 3321, don't let your success with these girls get to your head", and "do you think you're better than me because you're talking to all these girls?"

So, yeah......so somehow I let this one girl walk all over me. I used to like her long ago but ever since I started dating other girls, had a girlfriend and stuff like that I have no interest in dating her or doing anything more than friends.......don't get me wrong but I'd still fsck her if she gave me the chance but it seems like other girls in my life are trying to bring me down because of how easy it is for me to talk to girls.

I met a very cute girl last weekeend at a party with my sister and her *****y ass friend pulled her away as we were cuddling because she said that some guy(her) brought her to the party and NOT me. My sister lectured me for two hours about it and I decided to contact this girl the next evening, she called me back and my sister said she was wrong about the girl I was talking to. Their friend, the guy was still attached to his ex.

So stuff women who are close to you say can easily get to you feel bad about being successful with women. This is turned more into a rant analysis thread but I think every guy needs to be careful with female friends and family that are close to them.

I guess I want to see what your experiences are with this. I know my female friend doesn't want to date me but why the hate?

 

[penkitten]

she is jealous
she wants you

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by penkitten
she is jealous
she wants you

Heh, maybe I'm just really stubborn, ignorant or whatever, I honestly don't ever see how she could start liking me.

To be honest, when she tells me about guys, I'm always telling her that I want to hear a "good" story. I want her meet lots of guys and have fun. I don't get jealous like I used to when I had bad oneitis for her 3 years ago.

She's fine as hell but I seriously think dating her is out of the question. Maybe if I see her since I haven't in months, we just talk every day, I might be able to muster up interest but I want her to just get a boyfriend or something.

So maybe I'm blind but if she told me she was interested in me I'd have to hold back my laughter.

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Dont bother with what she says to you.

She enjoyed the attention you gave to her & now its gone, she is doing damage control and wants the attention you once gave her & this is what makes her secretly desire you.

I had a LJBF with a HB8 & after coming on here instead of getting out of friendszone, I made sure I got into the zone even deeper by treating her like a spoilt little brat and a buddy & thats when she started showing signs of interest ..

 

[JT47319]

I'd have to agree with most of the other guys.

On the other hand, it also sounds that you may simply be bragging to her and she's picking up on it.