afc_recovering
Don Juan
Here's the story... This girl from my school and I were hanging out a bit outside of school, however it was kindof secretive and noone really knew about it. So one night we hooked up, no big deal I fingered her and she gave me a handjob. So a few weeks later she left with her family to Japan for 4 months, because her dad is a banker and gets moved regularly.
One night, I got drunk and while trying to pick up a girl, I told her that girl1 and I had sex before she left. Well I didn't think it was a big deal then, but a few days later I had a TON of people asking me about it. At first I tried to deny it, but then when girl2 confronted me about it, I didn't want to seem like a liar so I told her we did, but to DL it.
So it got quiet for a few months and I thought I was in the clear and then out of nowhere, it came up again. I was afraid to say I lied and look like a fool so I just agreed with it, hoping it would go away.
Well about a month ago the girl came home, and obviously she heard about it. So she confronted me, and I tried to be C&F with her but she was PISSED. At first she thought I just told girl1, so I told her I must've made it up when I was drunk and that I would fix it, but she wouldn't let it go. Then, a ton of people asked her about it and she's telling everyone about how much of a scum bag and liar I am. (she is one of the popular girls)
So now she's got the whole group of popular girls turned on me and all my friends know I was lying, but they haven't confronted me yet. Everytime I see this girl at a party she talks about it, to the point where I hate going out with my regular group of friends. How the hell am I going to clean up this mess, stop going out for a while ignore it and let it die down, or try to be honest and show everyone I'm a liar? Help plzzz
One night, I got drunk and while trying to pick up a girl, I told her that girl1 and I had sex before she left. Well I didn't think it was a big deal then, but a few days later I had a TON of people asking me about it. At first I tried to deny it, but then when girl2 confronted me about it, I didn't want to seem like a liar so I told her we did, but to DL it.
So it got quiet for a few months and I thought I was in the clear and then out of nowhere, it came up again. I was afraid to say I lied and look like a fool so I just agreed with it, hoping it would go away.
Well about a month ago the girl came home, and obviously she heard about it. So she confronted me, and I tried to be C&F with her but she was PISSED. At first she thought I just told girl1, so I told her I must've made it up when I was drunk and that I would fix it, but she wouldn't let it go. Then, a ton of people asked her about it and she's telling everyone about how much of a scum bag and liar I am. (she is one of the popular girls)
So now she's got the whole group of popular girls turned on me and all my friends know I was lying, but they haven't confronted me yet. Everytime I see this girl at a party she talks about it, to the point where I hate going out with my regular group of friends. How the hell am I going to clean up this mess, stop going out for a while ignore it and let it die down, or try to be honest and show everyone I'm a liar? Help plzzz